The quality I love most in a guy is his acceptance of who he is. He shouldn't be trying to change for each person he talks to -- in other words, someone who doesn't care what other people think about his hobbies, style, friends, whatever. Not using dirty language -- seriously. It shows loads of character and says a lot about the guy/girl's upbringing. Having a unique talent other than getting stoned and drunk every weekend and bragging about it on Monday is a huge things too. Like a guy you never expected to have musical ability, but who is a genius when he sits down at the piano. I really like it when a guy remembers a small thing you mentioned and brings it up later. It's really flattering to know he's actually listening to what you say.
Yea I always worry though because my interests aren't really ordinry, I love reading non-fiction books about all kinds of stuff....personal expewreinces, politics, human behavior etc. It seems like I'm out of touc with people vuz they like talking about music/sports etc. Which I like to watch football and I bring my ipod everywhere but I dontg really see myself having logn conversations about those things. - 18 days ago
I reallly like when a guy is confident in himself. Not cocky, just ..he knows who he his and he's happy with it. I like a guy who can make me laugh. Someone who challenges me, because I'm pretty stubborn and sarcastic sometimes. Someone who isn't afraid to be different from everyone else.. I don't know that's just my opinion. Every girl is different.
I like when a guy is funny, nice, at least semi-intelligent and talented in some aspect, whether it be art, music, writing, or what have you.
He can't be a player (flirting doesn't bother me, but that's as far as it goes), he can't be a bum (meaning he must have a job), and he can't do drugs or be an alcoholic.
I have to be attracted to him... or at least not repulsed.
i love a guy who can make me laugh no matter what. I also like it what he is pretty well-liked and doesn't get into the man-drama that sometimes occurs.
I've always been most impressed by a great sense of humor. I love the guy who can make me laugh. An added bonus is when he appreciates my rather off beat sense of humor as well. Above everything else, a sense of humor is the number one thing for me.
I'm impressed when a guy is sociable, well-liked and respected by others - I don't mean 'popular' in pop-culture terms, and by respected I mean that people see him as a good sort of guy who respects others and therefore gains the respect of others in turn. I also like it when a guy is kind, not just to me, but to everyone else. I like guys who are responsible, dependable and have interests outside partying and drinking.
And I'll be very very impressed if he can make me laugh and feel at ease around him.
Good looks are always a plus if he's got them but it's usually not what will really impress me - as long as he puts some effort into his appearance and is healthy, average looks are fine by me.
But is it possible a guy like that could be too perfect? Which leads to deterring you from dating him but rather just admire him as a friend? - 19 days ago
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Yeah definitely...I mean I know no one's perfect but I would probably think that he wouldn't want to go out with me because he's out of my league. The guy I like at the moment is sort of like that, not very attractive physically but he's the sweetest guy ever, well-liked and nice to everyone, so I kind of feel like I just wouldn't meet his standards of 'a nice and pretty girl' and therefore I'm too afraid to let him know how I feel. - 19 days ago
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