What's with older women and me?

Maturity definitely is a main factor. Heck I'm only young and oder guys seem to like me they say is for my personality and maturity but then again lol. Yep definitely plus older women think younger guys would be way more fun if you know what I'm saying if you look from it in that perspective lol ewwww o. M. G I can't believe I just did. I thought most guys would find it boost their ego to score and tap older women? Like some fantasy thing or something lol. Or honestly they just horny bitches that's all I got to say to sum up their overall intentions lol no offense lol

If you are really mature than that's way older women are attracted to you because that's a big turn on maybe the reason women your age don't aren't interested in as you say because of the simple fact that you are mature. Sometimes when a guy is too mature it makes you feel as though you're a child and that can get really annoying.

Hey, as another gentleman who prefers the older ladies, enjoy it while you can. Older women can and generally will offer you so many more things that the girls your age and younger. Not only do they generally have their lives in order, know what they want, and aren't afraid to go after it.

Older women do tend to get very flattered if a younger up and coming man finds them appealing especially more than just for sex. Not to mention that around the age of late twenties/early thirties men tend to focus on their careers and aren't as much "fun" as we younger mature guys can be. Yes we still pay bills, yes we have careers, yes we are just as mature, but we still like to enjoy life to the fullest whenever we can.

As far as younger girls go, forget them, if they find you "too old" in personality, you are much better off with the older women who will appreciate your personality quite a bit more. I've been with a few younger girls and some of them used to call me an "old man" because I didn't find some of the more childish things they did often appealing. Their older girlfriends would always ask how she got me, and a few of them actually approached me for a date after she dumped me.

So snag one if you can and hold on to her, they will treat you so much better than girls your age or even younger.

Dude, I'm pretty much the same way as you. I've had plenty of the same exact experiences, pretty much always have been considered more mature than my age. I've stuck with it, and enjoyed it tremendously. I've only dated a few women younger than me, got kinda fed up with it, and have stuck to women generally at least my age or older.

I seem to connect better with them for the exact reasons Meanie-Jello said... older women have experience, they can easily tell if a guy is mature in his mind. They know by just talking to you.... they see and hear it in your actions, your thoughts, how you hold yourself, what's important to you, all that stuff. And moreover, they value it highly. The things that you think are odd are actually the things that those older women are looking for. And if you take a look around on some general sites for women talking about knowing and figuring out more about men, they actually will fantasize and brag about landing a younger guy, because it validates that they still have the sexual appeal to keep you interested, even though they might have been through a few things in their life. It's pretty damn flattering to them when you think about it, every woman wants to know that she's still got it goin' on.

How do I know all this? I've dated women that were 5, 10, even 20 years my elder. And you know what? It's definitely something you don't want to miss out on. You are one of the lucky ones my friend, because you get a woman who can show you things you can't get from a girl who's younger and inexperienced. Trust me, I'm engaged now and marrying one of them (she's 4 years older than me), and she's without a doubt the most unbelievable wonderful woman I could ever ask for. Something about them that just signifies to me that they know how to please a man in all the right ways.

Older women do flirt with younger men. It is quite comment. Since older women have more experience in life, they know what they want and are not afraid to go after it. On the other hand, younger women, the ones around your age group, like to keep it cool and let the men go after them. I don't know are you really good looking or just a self proclaimed one. But don't expect the women do the first move. Wait for the eye contact and give her a smile. If she smiles back, go for it.