I know this guy friend for couple of months. At the beginning, I had relationship problems with my boyfriend so, I always talked to him about it.
He always listened and said that I deserved better. And that I should get out of the relationship. I did. We hang out a lot more, spend time alone together, many physical contacts ( he hugs, smell my hair, slap my butt, put his arm around me etc. ) I don't know if he does this to all of his girl friends. Sometimes he makes me feel so special and sometimes I don't at all. He takes me to meet everyone in his family. He keeps saying that I'm like his first girlfriend. He told me all about his previous loved life as well.
When I asked what am I to you? He responded that " you're my friend" So, I asked him like " Am I like your other girl friends" he said Yes but closer. I'm all confused. It seems like he flirts with me a lot and I flirt back. His friends always said that we're like a married couple. Neither him or I say anything to his friends comments. I asked him if am I too closed to him that I should step back, he said NO "you're fine" I wanna know what he's think. I'm afraid I'm falling for him already.
Should I move on, continue flirting, or step back before I feel more attached to him. Any suggestions. Please help. Thanks!
Update: Thanks for everyone input so far. I appreciate it. I wanna to tell him how I feel but seriously I don't really know how to. I don't want to be the one who is assuming that he likes me more than friend. I'm afraid to loose him if he's not thinking the same
9 months ago
Update: With all these flirting happen between me & him. Another girl at work told me he kissed her. I asked him and he said yes but it didn't mean anything to him and now they stay as friend. Why he did that when flirting with me? Is he a big flirter?
9 months ago
ok you should sit him down and tell him first off i still want us to be friends more than anything. but you are falling for him, if you don't tell him you never know where things will go. i know its hard but what if he feels the same way. good luck
He obviously treats you more than a friend. He likes you, and likes flirting with you, but he does not want to go any further yet. Maybe he is not ready to settle down. Or maybe he is afraid that he may lost you if the relationship did not go well. Either way, you need to tell him how you feel.
He likes you as more than a friend so you should let him know that your interested in him also. Just tell him that you like and that you think that you and him click and you like that and you think that y'all could have a good relationship. Something like that just let him know what's up before he loses interest
Guys are strange like that. Just remember that a guy's actions speak much louder than words. If he's always flirting with you, hanging out with you, hugging you, etc. Then he probably does like you more than a friend. Maybe he's afraid to make it official. His last relationship could've ended badly or he could just be scared that if the two of you broke up down the road he'd lose a great friend. To me it looks like a commitment issue on his end. I'd say make it clear to him that you do like him more than friends and that you do want to be with him. Erase the doubt in his mind.
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