Is it true that a shy guy will have no problems with girls, except the one he might like. I mean, I have lots of coworkers and every morning when they pass my or I their workplace, we just look, smile and say Hi or Good Morning (like ordinary and friendly), except this guy (I must admit have a bit crush on him), he never looks in my direction at all, not even to say Hi...he rushes passed me quickly trying to look busy or tries to engage in conversation with anybody who is with him at that moment, just not to look in my direction. He is not a teenager, so that's why I'm confused about this behavior. And that's not the only thing, he also tries to get away from conversations I try to start with him. If I come and he is already in the conversation, he just goes quiet, until I go away. He always tries to keep distance with me. I even sometimes get a vibe he dislikes me.
To say that a shy guy will have no problems with girls -- except the one he likes -- is a bit too black and white for me. I know that I take time to warm up to people, and I'm very self-conscious about what I say to (and do around) my crush. It's taken me the better part of six months, but I'm finally comfortable talking to her, flirting with her and even asked her to dinner at the end of her shift a couple times.
This may just be me, but I'd observe him more before making a final judgment on whether or not he dislikes you. It may be exactly the opposite!
i worked with a guy like that. he spoke to everybody but me and I got a vibe that he didn't like me. he eventually warmed up a little a few months later but I don't know he was weird. he might not like you for some reason, just don't worry about it. if he is gonna act all unsocial and standoffish he's not worth your affections
...if a guy when passing you is in conversation with his friend, but sneaks a quick glance at me and then returns to his friend. I've caught him doing...
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