How do I attract attention from older men? i know it sounds kind of wrong, but that's just what I'm attracted to. things like certain clothing, witty conversation?
I know its kind of obvious. But approaching older men vs. Peers is a totally different circumstance. So what would be some ways to get the attention of more mature/older men?
Depends on how old you are and what age the guy is. If he's a cpl years older then chances are, he already notices you. If he's way older, then he only wants one thing, sex. There is nothing else that you can offer a much older guy, then a small tight body. I assume you're under 18 because of your question. Age is just a number, but it's also a number that usually comes with some significance. There is nothing a 17 year old girl can offer to a 30 year old, but her body. But if he's 20, that's a little bit closer to maturity, where you are in life, etc. But it all depends on the ages, and the parties involved.
But if you're attractive, you will attract attention from guys. You don't need much else.
Ok, well is there any kind of sexual stuff at all? Believe me, I like younger girls as much as the next guy. But here's the deal. If he's 29, he should have an idea of where he's going in life. He should be done with college and in his career. You on the other hand, have just begun your college and career journey. That means that one of you needs to kind of adjust their life for the other. Is there any sexual stuff going on? If so, how do you know if he likes you or just wants sex? - 8 months ago
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I don't know if there's anything or not going on. That's the point. I want to initiate it, but just wondering how about to doing it. Or attract attention to myself. I'd take anything. A sexual relationship OR a regular relationship. Lol. - 8 months ago
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You'd take ANYTHING? Are you really that desperate? Why not be picky and patient, and find a great guy who will treat you like a princess, take care of you, and care for you? - 8 months ago
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I just really have a thing for this guy. but I understand what you're saying. But we're allowed to have distractions and flings right? So its not like I'm only settling for this. - 8 months ago
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You're allowed to do whatever you want. It's your body and your life. But if you want advice on booty calls, you can ask someone else. I won't give advice on that. - 8 months ago
I guess part of the question is "How much older? " Nursing homes are always great places to find captive men. Rofl. Just kidding. Many older men are captivated by younger women. It doesn't take a whole lot of work to get their attention. Just flirt like you usually do, and be a little coy, but at the same time, be obvious. Older men are also a little scared of younger women. They aren't always sure that they are really interested in them in a relationship sort of way. They need a little confirmation.
The easiest thing to do is take the lead and talk to him; I'm 33 now, and a lot of the women I meet are in the late 20's, and 30's age range. One of the differences I've noticed is that a lot of these women just come up and talk to you like you're talking about the weather. At this age range it seems they either have been thru a lot of relationships, or they just don't simply care about playing games, so from that perspective, is a lot easier to talk to some of these women; the younger girls are still in that fantasy land and a lot of times they have no idea what life is all about. So, my advice would be to just go up to him, and ask him what he does (if you haven't already), and just make small conversation; and of course, make sure you know what you're talking about. If you're going to college, then say, I'm going to college trying to study such and such, but maybe I change my major, etc; as opposed to, I don't know what I want to do with my life, so I'm just chilling out. So try to express yourself a bit more 'elegant', and again, once you show some interest, I"m sure this guy will pay you attention. Granted, hoping he is single and ready to mingle!
I can't reply directly to your comment because you are anonymous. I think you are out thinking yourself. Any "older" guy who shoots you down or doesn't at least give you an honest chance because of your age is. Non-existent or not worth your time. I'm telling you, girl. If he's single, you have his attention. If he's worth anything, he won't act on it unless you make the 1st move. I felt a little pervy even though my girl came after me. Lay it out there. If it should happen. It will.
You're attracted to older men? Well I'm 19 and I consider myself to be an older man. I might have to agree with you though as a lot of these guys my age just act stupid and crazy. Girls aren't that mature either as I find many of them to be kind of silly. And what's with this clothing business? What kind of clothes do you like guys to wear? Pssst, older guys, I guess we're not good enough for you are we lol :(
I don't hate you bro. And I appreciate your advice earlier. I was 19 too. It's the "that guys that give us all a bad name. - 9 months ago
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Its not that I specifically look for older men. But I just happen to be in a situation now where I'm attracted to one. personality gets me, not age. Being mature doesn't have to be the age. I like any man that knows what he wants and doesn't bullshit around. If you want a relationship then ask for one. If you just want sex, then ask for it too. Lol, that's my opinion. - 9 months ago
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You know what girlie, we need more people in the world like you. I swear I've wasted so much time trying to figure out wtf is going on. 80% of the questions on this site wouldn't need to be asked if people had better communication, just make things clear. Btw no problem ryguy, your girl is like 22 you said? No wonder she talks a lot dude. That's my age group and girls never shut up. You're a man, and she's still a girl. - 9 months ago
I am the "older man" (not a perv). I am 32 and dating a 22yr old. She has what I want (education, hotness,an ass you can bounce a quarter off). I have what she wants (not a fratbot, sexual experience skills, money, sexual experience skills, money, etc) Us older dudes don't want to come off creepy so you will, unfortunately, have to make the 1st move. But were experienced enough to handle your aggressiveness without getting weird so just go for it.
I see. But what makes a girl that young stand out to you? Wouldn't you automatically assume they're immature and what not? What is a factor that makes them more attractive then your peers? - 9 months ago
Well you should state what you consider an older man. I'm 21 and my boyfriend will be 31 in June. I met him at a party though, and got his attention simply because I wasn't talking to anyone and apparently he was attracted to me.
One thing I have learned though, age is really meaningless. If you try so hard to attract someone, it's obvious and usually all it does is scare them off.
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