Last night I stayed at a really close guy friends of mine. We have always had an attraction to each other but never really done anything about it. Well, last night I was in his bed with him and all we were doing was cuddling and talking. Then when waking up he kissed me on the forehead and held me tight...is this something I should just shake off or is there more to read into?
It's a sign that you need to re-evaluate your friendship.
It's not that weird, there are reasons for doing this. I am in this situation with a girl I know for the following reasons:
1) We're attracted to each other and want to express it physically 2) I want to take it slow and not ruin the friendship 3) She needs her space because she got out of a rough relationship 4) I want her to know she can be close to me without feeling like she has to put out so she can act on the feelings on her own will and with no pressure to maintain "us"
But when you find yourself in this situation, you need to be mature about your feelings and not sweep them under the rug. When some intense emotion gets bottled up, it starts doing weird stuff and gets funky and hard to deal with.
Obviously, he's attracted and would want more, but you guys are still just friends. So you need to be able to decide how you want to respond to those feelings without ruining the friendship.
And yes, it's possible to go from friends to lovers and back without messing everything up, but you need to be very careful and open and be willing to communicate a lot.
well your both cuddling and talking on his bed sounds like more than just friends. I think he likes you, or loves you. He seems very polite and probably a little bit shy. Have you ever had sex? If not I would definitely say he wants to maybe you want to. Whatever you decide to do, its time to stop pretending your just friends. Sleeping the whole night together is something most people take pretty seriously. The guy Cartiphilus sort of said what I was thinking
You crossed the line by sleeping in the same bed. Do you do this with other friends? Wasn't there a couch to sleep on or a way for you to go home? Would you cuddle with your girlfriends?
You two are playing with fire and trying to avoid talking about what is going on here by doing silly things like sleeping in the same bed and cuddling. Talk about it. Go in to this with your eyes wide open. Be aware that you can never go back to friendship once you try and up the ante and date. If the dating does not go well or you two just don't progress on that side, your friendship will be compromised, perhaps ruined. Who knows, your "friendship" could be based totally on this attraction and not exist if dating doesn't work out.
i have a bestfriend who sleeps in my bed at least 2 out of 4 days that we are At school and he never kissed me period there is def. something to look into
I have some guy friends that sleep in my bed when they stay over. We might cuddle a little, but I feel like its like an arm draped over my waste, not like, full on spooning. Also, there is no forehead kissing involved.
All I'm saying is that if you feel something more, and his lips are anywhere near your body (even just your forehead) something is up. It sounds like he's into you and you need to evaluate how you feel about him.
Just be pretty sure about it. I would be careful no to rush into something your not sure about and possibility hurt him.
it def. seems like his into you however keep in mind we can never assume that. We must wait until we makes that effort, a lot of effort. I do think that if he likes you, after this he will start being very persisent and if he doesn't or isn't persisent, his just not INTO YOU ENOUGH for you to stop your life for him and ponder? The only kind of guys to go for are the ones who really want you but to answer your questions, yes it sounds like there's a lot of chemistry there but the only way to realy know is to see how he treats you within the next few days after.
It doesn't count if he's drunk. Had you been drinking? Yes, people are more "honest" when intoxicated, but if they can't do/say it sober, then it doesn't count. See how he acts the next few times you are together.
I've been in the EXACT same position as you before, and you really can't gauge his feelings unless he brings it up afterwards. But generally a kiss on the forehead is somewhat protective, which could be taken as sibling-like, or old-school romantic. Hopefully it's the latter.
Sorry but this all sounds ridiculous to me. Really! We are just friends who sleep in the same bed and cuddle. What? Why is that, why aren't you more than friends? To me that just doesn't compute. Stay out of his bed and you won't have to worry about it. You both sound pretty weird really to me. Sorry.
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