This one is for guys. If you're up to it! ;) Tell me, what do YOU do to make that girl you like know she's on your mind and that you'd like to be more than just friends? And for the shy guys. I know it's difficult for you but even you have to give off some kind of a vibe, or act differently with that girl. Tell me what do you do to make her acknowledge you? :)
Generally in my first couple of chats I get to know who the person is, what she likes, dislikes her hobbies etc. In my case I would weave a web around her, where every thread lets her know how much she would mean to me if she would say yes.
Making genuine mistakes around her, and making her believe that even a master can get jittery when he is accompanied by a damsel like her.
In brief making it sound such that, the cogs in my wheel of life has suddenly rusted if not for her. :-)
When talking about the non verbal signs...what are they? - 8 months ago
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Non verbal eh. That would be going for things that turn on most women's unconscious hormones: - the light-hearted sense of humor with a display of self-confidence. - no outbursts of anger or rage at petty inconveniences. - show her by body language that you are proud to be you. Posture, movements and clothes do most of the advertising. - Be attentive and strong but gentle. - 8 months ago
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You really know your stuff! ;)
Unfortunately...the guy I like is not that mature....and not that outgoing...to him flirting means turning scarlet and looking at me all the time, and when I catch him...some more looking and blushing! xD - 8 months ago
Ok so you said the guy you like is probably very nervous, if he turns red when you catch him looking at you, it probably means he likes you too. Does he smile when you look at him? I turn red all the time when I'm embarrassed or attention is called to me, because it puts me outside of my comfort zone. If this guy is anything like me, he is waiting for someone to push him outside his zone because he knows that he doesn't have the courage to do it himself. So it's either going to be you or him that breaks the ice first and invades the others territory XD.
Oh yea and he will probably almost shit his pants when he first starts talking to you, as well as get caught up in his own sentences, stutter, crack his voice, and experience hot and cold flashs simultaneously. Don't take any of these responses too seriously because it just shows he doesn't do this often. Shy guys take time to become comfortable around others, but in time, they will catch up to everyone else ;)
I'm on the shy side. But usually I will just ask them how they are doing and just have fun and be myself. I just joke around with them. For example this girl at work we like each other but I'm too shy to say anything so I will always ask her how her day is going and everything as soon as I see her at work and then throughout the night I will just joke around with her and then just flash this little smile to try and send something her way and it usually comes back with a nice smile in return.
I've no clue what "XD" is an acronym for; seems to be some kind of children of the corn text style typing that correlates with an intention to slay our economy (from the inside) rather than our adults by corroding thought back to grunts and sighs and single, yet non-hieroglyphic, symbols...
I'm assuming your comment is meant to imply that I'm 12 or something along those lines? But passive-aggressive insult toward me notwithstanding, I stand by my comment that the picture is creepy. - 8 months ago
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Ok. That symbol means that you are funny in a kind of a silly (not meaning to insult anyone) way. And I've got nothing to do with your economic status since I'm not from your country. It seems to me you are being more childish than me since you just posted a comment that doesn't help anyone and it expresses your opinion on a certain matter which no one asked you for. (and what's wrong with a little primal expression anyway? ) - 8 months ago
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