There's this gorgeous guy & I'm totally not. there was a problem between the 2 of us and my friend who had a crush on him.. where we tried to pull a prank by giving him a friendship letter...he doesn't talk to girls and he got really angry apparently.. all my friends had crushes on him.i was helping them..naturally he might have thought that I like him or something. he has been known to look at girls who like him. and play with them sometimes.. but he never sacrifices... or smiles or anything. So they all get their hopes up, in the end to realize he was just looking at them like, "there's that girl who likes me.." Now he is looking at me. he has been looking at me, through the whole time... since the letter case... I started out a bit... like very rarely I would catch him staring or else his friends smiling at me and talking to him.. So I got really scared...but no one notices it is at me.. they think it is at them... cause he has these real squinty eyes, plus all the girls are really afraid to look into them... so they just see him staring at our direction... ME? I'm this great big, "friendly" type, that thinks of guys are girls in pants... so I just look at the face directly to find him staring at m. its been 3 years...He has grown more obvious. He stares at me,eyebrows raised and eyes big like he is going to eat me and he doesn't care if I see him, he would go on looking and I would feel the burn in my eyes and look away(he has these x-ray penetrating eyes,dark and clear) I get really nervous and when we are alone, sparks fly... sometimes, he is all laughing and talking with everyone while I'm going while glancing a lot at me,but when I pass to a place I can't see him, when I turn sometimes I notice, he is alone and just staring at me, without talking to anyone. he has carved our first letters on a cork he used in practical physics... he has carved his initials and sometimes mine in hearts and all over desks and he never used to write on tables before. he sacrifices his time to stay for me... in my classes and once he came to a concert with me in it... He smiles,he never breaks eye contact.. people say he seems like he has finally found love.. though they never notice or think that I could be in the picture.. he tells his friends to look at me... Sometimes.. especially this shows me that maybe he thinks I like him(I do, but don't want him to know that), but once we had to sit together... and sparks were flying like nothing.. his friends teased him a couple of times... and he was all show offy trying to make everyone laugh... he rarely laughs himself but he was all laughing... he can't stop looking when I smile or laugh. from this info. does he like me, or does he think that I like him?
Next, sometimes he just stops looking he goes into a mood.. and when I look he just glances or else ignores. He stops looking all of a sudden, especially after a day he has been really obvious. So, why the change all of a sudden. Why? its driving me nuts
Perhaps he noticed you instead of the others because you don't show an interest. All of the other girls have outwardly shown they like him. He seems to prefer to be the aggressor. You appeal to him and he is giving off A LOT of signals to reinforce that. I say, keep doing what you're doing because he loves the thrill of the chase.
But why does he get weird...?? THAts what really scares me! - 4 months ago
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I think it's all ego based. He is trying to dominate you and being you under his "spell" of sorts. That's why he does the deep staring, carving hearts in tables etc. He wants to extricate a reaction or response from you. I am sorry to hear it scares you. Since that's the case then maintain minimal eye contact and try to avoid him. Something like this should be fun and flirty, not scary. - 4 months ago
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