There is this guy. I like and I think he really likes me. I'm in high school.this guy and me likes to talk A LOT. He is really nice to me. We joke around a lot and my best friends say we'd be a GREAT couple. What can I do to make him ask me out?.I'm scared he won't ask me out cause one of my friends REALLY likes me. HELP!
I had this (except I was the asker), it was basically the same thing, we got along great and everyone said we would make a great couple. The reason I waited so long to ask her out was that I was worried I would loose her as a friend if she said no (which she did), or that our relationship would be different afterwards. Maybe he doesn't know you're interested in him that way (guys are generally bad at picking up signs) and he thinks if he ask, and you say no, that he might loose you as a friend or it will be different. I think the best thing for you to do if it's on your mind that much, it to talk to him about it or get someone you trust to talk to him. And just see what he says. Plus you're in high school. It's not the end of the world.
So how is the chemistry between the guy who REALLY likes you and you? Guys are not that good in understanding even if you give light signals to them, you have to guide them all the way through for them to get the point. Try getting this message of yours through your other friends mouths. If he believes asking you out does not put him in mess with the other guy, he would surely try.
You cannot do anything to MAKE him ask you out. The best thing to do is, next time one of your friends remarks that you two would make a good couple, make sure he/she says it while you and this boy are with each other. As soon your friend says, "oh you two would make such a great couple" - then turn to him, and see his expression, if it looks positive then remark, "hey, do you think we would make a good couple". If he replies with "uuhhh ummm. " (and he looks a bit bashful. Take that as good sign), if he laughs and just sort of brushes it off then take that as a "no", and if your luck maybe he will agree and say, "yeah I think we would". So, next time get one of your friends to suggest this idea of you and this guy being a couple and see what happens. This is probably the most fool-proof way to do it. And probably the least intrusive or aggressive. Hope this helps.
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