Guys, I need help finding out what this guy thinks. Sorry if this is too long but I want to give you all my observations. Thank you for your time!
I am taking dance lessons for about a year now from a cute guy from Russia. We are adults & about the same age so there's no preying blah, blah, blah, issues to deal with. Anyway, each time we see each other, I feel like the air is on fire. And I know other people see it too. Please keep in mind he isn't supposed to fraternize with his clients per the company.
Some things he does:
- always hugs me when I come in the studio, if he's busy, he hugs me as soon as he can
- when I enter the room, will stare at me & smile for so long that I get uncomfortable that others will see (though I do enjoy it)
- when he dances w/other students during group activities will stare at me from the dance floor. Our eyes always seem to meet each other.
- he's not good about email because of his busy schedule but will call me to say that he is sending an email & then call me the next day to make sure I got it & could read it
- I asked him to coffee & he told me maybe but never followed up. I certainly didn't because I didn't know what to make of his answer
- I mentioned that I had a hard time putting on my new dance shoes & he asked me if I wanted him to put them on, I said yes, so he did.
- when I have to go on a trip, he will insist on me taking pictures but yet he doesn't ask to see them.
- when I mentioned that my Bday was the next day, he told me happy bday. Then he called me on my bday, told me to take pictures, &then had all the other instructors sign a bday card to me & mailed it which I got the day after my bday. He was the only one I told.
- hugs me at least 3 times when I leave, body to body, side face touching lingering hugs
- knows & compliments me when I wear a new shirt, change my hair, perfume, makeup or anything.
- is learning spanish because he knows I speak it & speaks it to me as he learns it. First words were "brazo" (hug) and "hola bonita" hello beautiful.
- pokes me & picks me up at random
- laughs so much around me that others tell him to get to work. They tease him about how he dances with me sometimes or will prevent him from dancing with me to tease him
- talks about random stuff that have no connection to dance like movies, games, etc when we're supposed to be dancing
- I emailed him something in spanish & he took 2 weeks to get back to me because he wrote it down & researched it
- when he gets the chance to dance close w/me, he doesn't but will w/someone else.
- said I have an hourglass figure
- won't say anything about feelings to me.
- gets very shy & quiet if we sit next to one another eating in a group. He won't talk to me
I know this is a lot but if someone really like you, wouldn't they say so especially if they have your email & cellphone? If you want someone, don't you go after them no matter what?
Update: I know that this may seem obvious that he likes me but I really would like some guys to answer here. What would be holding him back from really putting it out there especially when I definitely have made it known that I enjoy his limited company.
8 months ago
Sounds like he is attracted to you but is he single or could he swing the other way. Because that just doesn't make sense. Yeah if I had the person's number or email I would definitely eventually reveal my feelings.
As far as I know he is single and not gay because I have seen him aroused when he has touched my hips and when I had touched him on his back. See why I so confused? - 8 months ago
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