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Say something or leave it alone?

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Spitbubble10 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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I work with this guy and I've liked him for quite awhile, almost 2 years. But we don't talk because he's pretty shy and I also am, mostly only around him because it scares me. If that makes sense. ( I wrote about this in another question if you want more info on the situation, its lengthy)

I've been trying to smile at him lately, if he happens to walk past but I still get nervous and look away after that. We can talk about work if a problem arises but that's about it.

Well today, after bumming around on Myspace, I ran across his profile. Which he has no friends on so I'm not sure if that would make it totally obvious I was looking for him.

Part of me wants to say something to him, like leave him a message or something (and then I'd know he read it and not worry about it later if I see him) but I have no idea what I'd say. I thought it was a really good idea for awhile but couldn't think of anything. Few hours later it hit me that I'm so glad I didn't do anything because I thought it was horrible.

So I guess I'm asking, do you think I should say something? Or would it make things more awkward and quiet? Maybe it could be an ice breaker or a way to get to talking more but I'm so not sure. Thanks!

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trestolle221 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
The pain of regret is infinitely worse than the pain of rejection. You have this life to live. Don't have regrets.
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Lala85 I love your answer! It's very true and inspiring :o) - 8 months ago

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Imme24 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Well I don't know how often you guys talk but, Maybe the next time you two talk You should try to steer the conversation onto things outside of work. Bring up something you plan on doing after work. Maybe (hint hint) you have to check something on myspace. Then ask him if he's got a myspace, tell him he should add you. That way you guys could start talking in a more personal setting.

Or you could just go for it!
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