There's this guy I like and we had been flirting non stop for about a month, to the point where we'd joke around about one day making out and we'd tell each other how how hot we thought the other one was. But whenever I'd mention going out one day, he'd always have an excuse not to. He's single by the way. I still like him but the flirting has toned down a lot due to his flakiness. I don't like games but we still talk.
Anyway, yesterday out of the blue (on IM) he says to me "I need a girlfriend to spend time with"
So I took it as a chance to see where I stood or whatever said "You could" and he's all like "You say that like it's so easy" so I asked him "It is. Are there any girls you have your eye on for the position? " and he took a loooooooong pause, I swear it was like 2 full minutes before replying "No"
WTF!
So I said "That's too bad" and he said "Ditto" then he didn't talk to me anymore and like 30 minutes later signed off.
Why would he flirt like crazy and out of the blue say that crap? Was that his way of letting me know he's not really into me?
OMG! This sounds JUST like the situation that I'm in right now! I even wrote a question about a similar instance like 40 minutes ago. A guy at my job flirts with me like crazy, but sometimes he can be so wishy washy. One day we were joking around and flirting like crazy, and he even slipped and said "Were so perfect for each other", and then a day later, he's telling me about some pick up lines he was using on this girl in his class! (rolls eyes)
I think that maybe your guy wants to see what kind of rise he can get out of you. It's not normal for a guy to bring up the fact that he wants a girlfriend to another girl unless he was trying to make her jealous. (Wow I just answered my own question, thanks! ) Anyway, That's something he would say to another guy friend if he really wanted to get it off of his chest. He said what he said in the IM because he wants to see if you will get mad. If you get mad or become a little standoffish, then he knows that it bothers you without actually having to ask you whether you like him or not. By saying no, he actually had two purposes. One is that he said no because he wanted to see if you would be disappointed or angry. And two, he's trying to let you know that there's no one else that he's interested in. (See how this is working? The pause was his plotting) Now I'll admit that the way in which he did it was not right. Its never right to play games with someone like that, but maybe that's the only way he knows how to express himself.
In my opinion, if he wasn't into you, he wouldn't have brought up the subject the way he did.
Wtf? I feel offended for you! What is wrong with this guy? Omggg! He really sounds like an oblivious loser (I'm sorry to say). He remembers flirting with you very well and it sounds like he was interested. But then again, he would make those excuses every time you wanted to hang out. I can't understand that for the life of me. Maybe he didn't take the flirting seriously. That is a possibility. As for that AIM conversation. Pfft. That was just cold and nasty. If he wanted to voice his desires about needing a woman in his life, why did he have to pick you? There must have been somebody on his buddy list that would have listened to that. And by the way, you should tell him that he used the word "ditto" improperly. Ugh! I don't like this dude! Keep your heart at bay, girl! Definitely don't put it near him
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