I've been out of school for quite some time already and working, I've only met a few girls here and there on occasion but as compared to school, is that the only place that your are "guaranteed" to meet girls?! It's hard just talking to a girl you don't know outside of school, and literally they might think you're weird or something for talking to them just out of the blue, but school is different, you can talk to anyone in your class about homework, ask them to grab a bite to eat etc. It's more casual and easier in college. Why is that?! Any opinions out there?
Yeah, and you know its only going to get harder the older you get, because what's going to happen is everybody has isolated themselves, there are no good places to meet women your going to respect, what in the club or at the bar, please? Community service, Church, or some sort of social places, like art shows and conventions are good places to meet women, now go grass hopper be fruitful and multiply
I don't really know why its like that, but I feel you. All you really need though is a change of scenery from where ever you are. School is a common place just as a bar or club or any other widely known social place where people gather for common interest. Good Luck man!
School is by far the easiest place to meet women, but there are plenty of other ways. Work is an obvious example, although sometimes that can start to interfere in the office, so careful of that. Another great thing to do is to join clubs, groups, or teams that you're interested in. That way you get to do something you enjoy, you get to meet new people, and you already know you have something in common. Also, head to farmer's markets, community activities, and other similar activities. Anywhere that there is a big gathering of people (to reduce the awkwardness of talking to a woman) and that you can go to regularly, helps.
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