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If you text a girl first quite often, would you expect her to make the effort to text you first sometimes?

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regretitlater (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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I really like this guy and he text me quite a few times first but I don't bother texting him first because I don't want to look easy.

Should I make more of an effort? will he think I'm not interested?


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Dimonik
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Dimonik      When: 3 months ago
If he text you more then him, do you consider him easy?
Men do not desire that women never initiate contact.
You will eventually drive him away if you keep this up.
Send him a message first every 3-4 days atleast. ;)
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play-wright-boy
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play-wright-boy      When: 3 months ago
Make up for your lack of initiative by sending enthusiastic replies (w/ exclamation points and happy faces), and by asking him a question in your replies. You may also want to occasionally text first to reassure him that he's not being annoying. But don't turn into a girl who pointlessly and incessantly texts him, because that will probably make him complacent.
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thehumanroach
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thehumanroach      When: 3 months ago
It doesn't make you look easy, just interested. If you like him, starting a conversation every once and awhile will let him know that.
Besides, by occasionally texting him first, he'll probably feel some assurance and start to text you more often.
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RememberWhenItRained
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RememberWhenItRained      When: 3 months ago
Well, if you like him, and he is clearly making an effort to communicate, why not? If you really do like him there is no reason to play hard to get in my opinion... If you do he eventually may (or may not though) think that you are not interested.
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walters15
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walters15      When: 3 months ago
You should text him first sometimes that way you show him that you want to comunicate with him. And about that thing "HARD TO GET" or "TO EASY TO GET" That is just silly, seriously. People tallk and chat all the times. Not jus to get each other atencion but to just chat as friends. So you have to tipe him first atlest sometimes and don't wait veary long to write him back or hi might think you are not intrested in him not eaven as a friend, or that you are stuck up.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 3 months ago
Not really, I think it would go both ways sooner or later. But let's say I asked a question in one of the texts, then yes I'd expect her to hit me a reply sometime soon. And if she didn't, I wouldn't go overboard on worrying about it.
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CrazynKinky
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CrazynKinky      When: 2 months ago
Girl it's complicated and confusing. Guys don't even bloody well know. It's different with every guy. You gota text him first sometimes but don't go overboard. Once in awhile only
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Anonymous User      When: 3 months ago
no don't text him forst I never do the running beleave me don't there was this bloke I used to see and he never text me that often but he did text me like every few days I never text him first once which I'm happy about because it turns out he actaully played me and he is an asshole but if I was you I would if he liked you he'd make the effort for you reply to his text keep the converstation going but don't text first
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Annette83
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Annette83      When: 3 months ago
You won't look too easy if you text him first sometimes. It is polite to share communication, otherwise the person who always initiates contact feels like the other person is not interested. When I was younger, I used to think the same way as you, but I later found that guys thought I didn't like them because I didn't ever contact them first.

In future, try not to worry so much about what people might think. Do what is polite and what you would like people to do to you and things will be fine.

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mwardlaw
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mwardlaw      When: 3 months ago
Don't come off a desperate, but YES... if you keep up this behavior, he will think you are too busy else- where, or not interested and he will distance himself emotionally... Try to go equal or a little less to keep his interest, but still play a little hard to get to keep his attention.
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