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Does she like me? Girls responses plz!!

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kurtta89 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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Ok so I met this girl one time while I was visiting my friend up in G. R. Well we talked for like 3 hours that night. Every night for the last 3 weeks she has texted me from 11 p. M. -1 a. M. And she is always talking about how she wants me to come see her, and she misses me and wants to see me soon. But at the same time she plays it off like she is friends with me but is always asking me what's going on with my love life and stuff like that. Am I just over thinking the situation and she doesn't like me or am I reading this right and she does like me?

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jgrant24 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
She is into! Girls don't call guys they barely know at 1 am unless there is a reason. You say you only really met her the one time right. Now she is talking about you coming to see her. She didn't ask when you were coming up to see your other friend, she asked when you were going to come see her. She is still trying to protect herself by "playing it off". She doesn't want to scare you off or seem desperate. She wants you to know she likes you but she also wants to make sure the feelings are mutual. Send her a text that is obviously a come on. Something like "hey I was just laying here in bed thinking about you" and see how she responds. If she responds in a good way then you know you got her. If she doesn't respond or sounds a little weird when she does then you know that it is only a friendship thing and now you know how to react to her.
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loveStruckBaby (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
Either she doesn't have anyone to talk to between the hours of 11pm and 1am (highly unlikely) or this girl really likes you. If she's saying she misses you and wants you to visit her, this goes way beyond the "friendship" protocol. Being polite would be for her to suggest it once. But add to that the fact that she's said she misses you and repeatedly asks means there's more interest than just friendship. Hope that helps.
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trickstir85 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Yes, she likes you. But, in the same stretch is afraid of rejection (ie. her asking you questions about your love life) -- she's got to see that their is little or no possibility of rejection. Unfortunately their is no guarantees with rejection. Give her hints to how you feel about her -- that way she gets the green light and knows it is safe to proceed. Also, I think you should take the next step. In this case she seems a little insecure in doing that. If you find it is turning into too much of a game, let her know and tell her you want out with it.
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mtorre389 (Age:Under 18)      When: 8 months ago
Its soooo obvious she's into you! I say go for it! Good luck :)
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
That sounds about right, she probably does like you. I know I would do the same if I was closer friends with the guy I like. It's definitely a plus if she's thinking about you between 11pm and 1am even if that sounds strange, cos that means she's thinking of you before she falls asleep! I guess it's a possibility that she's playing it off a little cos she's afraid you may not feel the same, so that way she can get to be around you and tell you that she wants to see you etc, without having to face rejection if you don't feel the same way. As for asking you what's going on with your love life...if I'm right about all the other little signals, then this one would mean she wants to know if you're single...if you're interested in someone else, something along those lines.
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bindu (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Hey dear friend, no doubt she loves you and like your relation. Please help her. She may be thirsty for it. Don't desperate her.
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trickstir85 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Yes, she is so interested. I think she is scared (hence her asking you about your love life -- she just isn't sure if you are interested in her the same way. Or perhaps you interested in someone else etc). Sounds like something that could turn out to be pretty passionate if acted upon. This is what you should do -- you must surprise visit her. Either that, or you better tell her how you feel. She doesn't seem like that type that would tell you -- but, she is taken with you, likes you and probably thinks about you two often - but, again is scared of making any kind of move. Give her a clear signal. Even if it is one line, give her the green light. Best bet really is --- surprise her. She will love it. Believe me. Hope that helps :)
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Suave-Man (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Dude, in the end, girls always want to play hard to get and she doesn't want to seem all gun hoe for you. If any girl asks you about your love life then she's definitely interested. Just make you move dude, and when she says, "I want you to come see me" tell her, "no you come see me" and she'll be over there so fast, watch.
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TwinkleToes0302 I have to admit...you're quite right about the whole "no you come see me" thing. If she likes you, she'll be there! - 8 months ago
kelkay I've fallen for that line many times. - 8 months ago
 
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