Just accommodate your voice volume for who you want to talk to. If they're 6 inches away, use a 6 inch voice (there's no need to get loud in their ear, lol) if they're 5 feet away, still, you don't have to go out of a normal voice range. If the person is 15 feet away from you, then you got to project your voice a little more. And so on. You don't always have to be loud, or quiet.
I've seen people stand right next to each other, and basically yell just to have a normal conversation, unless they wanted everyone to hear what they were talking about, I don't know why they do this. Or they get excited over something and the volume in their voice goes up.
And some people are naturally shy/quiet or loud/outgoing, and they tend to stay around the same volume when they speak, no matter who they are talking to. Then there are the mumblers! Oh man, the mumblers, who the heck knows what they say.
But when someone can accomadate their voice to their audience, then that goes a long way in how you carry yourself. And people who are good at this usually can carry a pretty good conversation. Not that the shy or loud person can't either, there's just a common understanding when this happens, instead of trying to hear what the quiet person is saying, and not overhear, or "eavesdrop" on the loud person.
That would definitely depend on the guy. I think that the majority of guys prefer a quieter girl over one that is loud and obnoxious, but that's just an educated guess.
neither! Guys think that girls that are loud are very Obnoxious and they don't really like a quiet girl either, because they don't want to have to do all the talking and they don't wanna hear just yep, nope and sure! they like girls who talk and listen!! I hope this helps you!!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
We go to a small, funky little coffee shop that is out of the way and quiet. I'm wearing an old tee that I got from Japan, jeans, and my chucks. We sit and talk for no longer than an hour, then part our ways and head home.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
They should know my interests, the kind of music I like (punk), my passions - philosophy and dance, my political stance (left-wing), a bit about my family, what I'm taking at university.
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