I really like this guy but can't figure out how he feels about me. On occasions when we happen to be out with mutual friends at a club he'll always give me a hug, hold my hand for a brief moment usually, put his arm around me, and on one occasion pulled me to closer to him to kiss me on the forehead. We're sort of friends I guess but not close friends and neither of us make it a point to meet each other unless some other friend has organized something and invited both of us.
We kind of flirt. Or I do anyway, I'm not sure if I should take his actions as flirting or not when he does things like nudging me for no reason or kicking my foot when I'm sitting next to him. Yesterday he put his hand on my knee casually for a brief moment while we were sitting next to each other just hanging out with friends. But I'm still not sure if I'm placed in the same category as our friends, or if there's a bit more to it.
Sometimes it seems like he doesn't care if I'm around or not. I mean if I like someone, I tend to make an effort to hang around a little longer so I get a chance to talk, but he doesn't. He'll come over and say hi to me, maybe chat for a bit, tease me about something or other but then kind of wanders off.
So basically it's a case of mixed signals, and what I want to know is how do you think he feels about me? And guys, how exactly do you act around girls you like? Do you tend to alternate between flirting with her when you're feeling brave and kind of ignoring her when you don't want to come across as being forward? And what kind of signs do you show a girl when you like her?
Hmmm. I don't know if this guy likes you or not. I'm the type to flirt with a girl at one moment, then ignore her the next because I don't want to come off as too obvious. He could like you, a lot of times things just pan out this way because you don't know if she feels the same way. I'm cautious, if I'm not sure she's feeling me, I won't flirt as much because I'm not going to waste my time on uncertainty. If you're giving him the right signals and he's not taking the bait, then cast your fishing line elsewhere. If you really haven't done much like give that sexy look or anything, then do it. Once a guy knows what's up he'll make his move if he's into you.
Thanks, it's good to hear things from a guy's point of view :) I haven't been able to manage the sexy look, it always ends up being a shy smile. - 8 months ago
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Haha yeah mine is a little shy too sometimes, but don't worry about it, it's cute :) - 8 months ago
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This guy has commitment issues. Follow him around a bit and see if he is doing the same thing with other women. If he is then all he is thinking about is sex, nothing more.
He doesn't usually do the same thing with others. He'll give his closer female friends a hug sometimes but nothing more. Except I'm wondering if I'm falling into this category of closer female friends instead of a potential girlfriend. - 8 months ago
Answerer
Hand on knee means he is after you. Get the guy alone and talk to him directly. Say what you feel for him and wait for his reply. That's all I can say. - 8 months ago
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That's going to take a good amount of guts on my part but I'll give it a go when I muster up enough courage. - 8 months ago
Answerer
Ah the days when I was shy. Get over it, the sooner you realize that everyone is the same when they come across these discussions the sooner you can come out of your shell. - 8 months ago
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