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Should I wait or beat her to the punch?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 7 months ago
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We just met up, she said she would e-mail me but hasn't yet.
Should I e-mail her instead?

Update: Thats funney you read the guys and the girls and you see they both say something totaly different. Now I'm not sure what to do.    7 months ago

Update: Well,. It was a good thing to e-mail her.    7 months ago

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LessthanLisa
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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Ok what do you have to lose by emailing her? If she's not into you, well, it's not going to change things. If she is interested, it'll make her happy.

Go for it. Personally I always LOVE when a guy I like contacts me, so long as he doesn't do so constantly, meaning don't send her 10 emails all at once. And if she doesn't answer this one, well, let her go - you're too good for her.
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Deeplove55
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Deeplove55 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Email her if that's really what you want to do. She probably got busy and for you to do it will let her know you really like her cause you didn't have to do it first since she said she would. She may b purposely not emailing yet to see if you would to show that you are interested. So, yea, email her. No games or who should do what first. Just do what you want to do to get this relationship started and going.
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Question Asker I don't know it sounds like game. She said she would e-mail me, she didn't have to tell me that because I would have e-mailed he first anyway. But since she said she would I thought maybe she had other things going on. But really it don't matter to me If you care about somebody your going to check to see if they are alright regardless of the situation. - 7 months ago
Answerer Your right. So won't you check to see if she is alright. Like I said, just email her if that's what you want to do. Don't worry about what she said and y she hasn't done. Could b busy. So contact her cause you seeing if she is alright. Find out y you haven't heard from her. Whatever your heart tells you, do it. - 7 months ago
 

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Nutz76
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Nutz76 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
Wait until tomorrow. If she sends you an email, or replies to yours tomorrow do NOT immediately respond.

The last thought you want to cross her mind is that you have nothing better to do with your life than to sit there waiting for her call/text/email/whatever. You get the point. Being needy or clingy is the fast track to never seeing or hearing from a woman ever again.
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Question Asker Well its been since Saturday you know I don't want it to go south too quickly two three days is alright. Right? - 7 months ago

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helpme2008 (Age:Over 45)      When: 7 months ago
I you just meet up today wait awhile like tomorrow. I has be since yesterday or longer go ahead. That way you have the excuse that you have not received it and that maybe its floating around in cyber space NEVER EVER say you deleted it by accident.
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Hunterboyz
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Hunterboyz (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
Definitely wait.
You don't want to come off as "needy"
To a lot of women, that's a turn-off.

I see you are very much anticipating this female's response or contact.
Take it slow, live as though she is an up-grade to your life.
Like if she never came in at this point, things would still run smoothly.
You want her to know that you have it together.

Just think about what she would be thinking if you sent your message before she even had the chance to write you.
There is a chance she'll think you were being sweet, but the greater chance is that she will see you as overly anxious.

So hang back a little and if you want to do something involving her, try to think of a few things you and her could do while your hanging out.
Girls like that you have a plan. Just make sure you stick to the plan.
Good Luck


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man
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