he constantly stares at me in class and has every intention to make it obvious, he like leans back and sits watching me, to get a glance of me...the sad part is we used to be friends and I asked him out and he made up a silly excuse and basically didn't make it happen, but he constantly goes out of his way to say hi to me, get my attention, and check me out nonstop during class in front of the professor making me uncomfortable, he also told one of his female friends about me and she is like stalking me and also stares at me, and I never met her in my life and don't even know her name! what the f--- is his problem?
i've been ignoring his existence...but I'm just confused as to what his motive is...what does he want? any guy perspectives will be greatful! thank you much
Someone likes you =] yeah you asked him out, just ask him out again. see what he says, if he doesn't say yes this time. you better get your running shoes on and get the hell away from him.
What is normal behavior then? and which part really threw it off?
Answerer
9 months ago
Lol you have to ask? well you mentioned that you guys were friends and talked before. then as soon as you make advances on him he switches to stalker mode. staring, and what not. and the part where you said that he told his lady friend and then they stared was esspecially wierd. a normal person would either say yes or no, shy means that they are afraid to ask, but if you pop the question and he says no then acts as if he's obssesed with you that is not normal, the actions contradict motives.
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9 months ago
Sounds like the first time I fell in love I feel in love because she did something really nice I think he is acting like this because he doesn't know what to do yet you mean allot to him the worst thing that could happen if I am right is for you to embarrass him I don't know how just try to go easy on him and If I am wrong about all this then he is a stereotypical creep.
But what kind of love is this if I express my feelings to him and ask him out and he won't even have a normal conversation with me or take me out to get to know me more? he just likes staring, he doesn't want to actually be with me?
Answerer
9 months ago
Maybe you got him by surprise. Or he started thinking seriously about you after it was too late. You knew what you were going to say, he wasn't prepared.
If you don't feel comfortable just confront him about it. Ask him what him and that other chick want. (Besides a 3some of course XD) I think he just is really into you and doesn't know what to do. It seems like he wasn't ready to go out with you before and now that he's got the idea in his head the more he wants to. It's just temptation. So just ask him about it. If you are willing to give him a shot then go ahead. But if not just let him down gentle because at the moment I think he thinks he is really into you but maybe if he takes a step back and considers the big picture, he might think differently. Good luck =)
That's pretty creepy, yeeea. Especially since the chick is looking at you too now. Just ignore him and don't let it creep you out as much as it is now.
LMAO. the [ irony ] in this question..and the guys' responses ! im in the exact same situation as you... i told the guy I liked him, but he was being a booty and stopped talking after he made up a stupid excuse. now he's doing the same thing as your good buddy in your question. great right ?
i don't know if the guys are being for real when they say its "love" but that's his [ mistake ] if he realized what a great person you are after you're gone. i ignore mine's existence, too...fyi... ugh.
I'm in the same situation with a guy I was seeing. For 5 months he was totally into me, and then after a couple of weeks of arguing, he decided to end it. And now, for the past month, I catch him staring at me all the time. We work together, and see each other daily, and I'm fine with that, my problem is all the staring. And the real kicker is, two days after he dumped me he decided to drop the proverbial "L" bomb. He told me he loved me after the fact. Thus resulting in my belief in love dropping even further.
My thoughts are that he's realising that he had feelings for you, only it was too late. Kind of like the saying "Hindsight is 20/20", he's figured out that he made a mistake, and doesn't know what to do about it.
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