I have a really close guy friend. He likes to poke or touch me in a teasing way to make me get 'mad'. There were a few instances when we were watching a movie or doing something together, he would:
- suddenly wipe his hands on his socks and then touch my hand, and I would pretend to get mad and scold him
- always does the commonly seen thing of tapping my right shoulder when he is standing behind my left shoulder
- comes over to my dorm room to study or hangout (excessively, almost everyday, until friends are asking if there's anything between us)
- recently has seemed to want to spend time with me (he recently got addicted to a computer game, but still comes to my room to hangout for the evening)
- since I am easily scared, he always tries to scare me like scaring me during a movie or when we are hanging out
- likes to poke, wrestle, touch in a teasing way like my first point above. But then again, he does touch other girls when talking, like briefly touching their arm when talking
- when we watch tv he would lean such that his head is beside and touching my arm (a few times tried to rest his head on my shoulder)
I feel these are signs he likes me (am I right here? ), but on the other hand, he has also been telling me his plans to spend time with other female friends during the holidays (when I am going overseas traveling). He talks about other girls, so does this action mean that he just wants to be friends with me only? Or more.?
Update: Oh and he also likes to whisper in my ears which I think its really sweet, BUT most of the time he whispers 'dummy'. So get irritated sometimes.
5 months ago
Just kidding! It looks to me like he's into you but if he has already told you that he will be seeing other females then he is definitely sending you some mixed signals. From my point of view, he may want to see if you get jealous when he tells you stuff like that so I suggest you do something to make him jealous and see what his reaction is. Have you ever thought about just asking the guy what his intentions are? It also looks like he is trying to play it safe. Men who play it safe never get what they really want. Again, ask the guy what his intentions really are?
Well then, he's the dummy. By saying that right there, he's not looking for anything special with you. I suggest go find yourself I real relationship and don't worry about making this guy jealous. - 5 months ago
From reading your question I would say he definitely likes you! Teasing, calling you dummy and resting head on shoulder are definite real signs of attraction liking you etc. Him talking about other female friends over the holidays, he might be feeling a little insecure bout the fact you will be meeting other people overseas, so is trying to make you feel what he is feeling. Just a guess, but I think he's smitten! Good luck!
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