This guy has been coming to my bar for the past 4, almost 5 months. He's the aggressive & confident type. Says it like it is and does not care what others think. He screams at the top of his lungs for me and refuses to be served drinks by any other bartenders whenever he is there. At first I was very annoyed by his dramatic episodes and crazy antics, but then he started getting to me. He is very charming in his own way. I didn't pay him any attention. I had a boyfriend. Inevitably, my boyfriend & I broke up. But anyway. We talked a few times a week (for a couple of months) and my interest in him grew. He seemed genuinely interested in me as well. But then after last weekend (I didn't acknowledge him and it kind of hurt his feelings, or so it seemed), he has not attempted to get in contact with me. Could a guy who was so smitten with you lose interest in you that easily? And for what reason?
It was unintentionally done... I was busy working and couldn't spare the time to look up and acknowledge him until later on. I never knew guys could be so sensitive... If he's really going to throw everything away because of that then it's just silly. - 8 months ago
Well if he feels like he is getting played with, like leading him on then you shut him down yeah. Not to say he lost interest maybe feels like what's the point she is never gonna get it. Good?
Makes sense, but I don't think I'm leading him on. He is well aware of my feelings... I hope. Well, I text him today and he didn't text me back. I guess that's enough of a hint. Haha. Thanks anyway. - 8 months ago
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Give it a couple days. Say hey stranger when you gonna take me out on a date? See what he says. - 8 months ago
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If he does not respond then I will have you to thank. ;-) Ha. - 8 months ago
First you got to wonder why he has been drinking in the first place. Maybe he recently broke up with his own girlfriend and he's not all there right now. As in his girlfriend did a number on him and he's not thinking clearly. I always say that anyone in a longterm relationship no matter their age or who they broke up with needs at least a year to clear their heads before going out on another date with someone else but that's just me.
Um, he's been single for over a year now. He goes to the bar to hang out with his friends. From what they are claiming, he is only there because I work there. But then again, they could be lying. - 8 months ago
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Well if that's the case then there may be something else going on his life that has him running away at the first sign of people avoiding him. If it's already been a year and he's still thinking about his past girlfriend then he's most likely having trouble letting go and is looking for any outlet that has him forget or worse reminds him about his girlfriend. Have you considered you may just be doing that? You remind him of his girlfriend. - 8 months ago
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