I have a guy friend (who yes, I do have a crush on), and for as long as I can remember being friends with him, especially lately, all of our conversations are geared toward dating, relationships etc. He used to tell me about the girls he dates but now he doesn't, it is more broad, like, "when I like a girl I usually don't say anything for a long time. " or him asking about my ex and whether or not we're still talking. One time, he walked me to my car, and I said, "you should find a girl that can surf with you" (I don't) and he said "yeah, or. " and just kind of trailed off. And when it is more playful, we make little jokes that insinuate sexual things. Or like, for example, the other day a woman had her boobs hanging way too far out of her swimsuit and he's like, that women needs to put those away, and we started laughing about it. And I thought it was interesting that he said that instead of some pervy thing about liking her boobs or something. I know he doesn't like slutty girls though. That's random, but you get my point.
Well anyways, does it mean anything about his train of thought that we always end up talking about things related to dating etc.? I know he doesn't talk like that to other girls, at least not any I know lol.
I believe he likes you. He is probably wondering if you would freak out if he asked you out on a real "date" date. The "friends who become lovers" scenario is very common (I married mine!), but usually one or the other has to make a pretty bold "leap of faith and trust" to cross that friends-only line. If the results are uncomfortable with either party, the old "friendship" usually turns into awkwardness and may not survive. However, I highly recommend good friends getting together if there is any physical attraction to start. I mean, aren't ALL marriages (exception: arranged marriages) ultimately following the same pattern? You meet as strangers. You become acquaintances. You develop a friendship, building trust and confidence in each other during the dating process. You evolve the friendship into love (have to love all your friends in one way or another right?), eventually leading to cohabitation/marriage/etc. It is only a natural progression of any relationship. Go for it.
Oh, and he was THINKING "pervy" things about that woman's breasts, but had the decency and respect for you not to bring it to your attention in that way. Deep inside, we (men) all like slutty girls. They can act like ladies in the ballroom, but we want a whore in the bedroom. ;)
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