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Do they think I'm pretty?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 8 months ago
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There is times when I'm not sure if I'm pretty or not. Mostly I think I'm not pretty. All the time at school I see these couples and it just makes me feel horrible. I've never had a boyfriend before. And I've only been asked out three times by guys who weren't really in to me, basically because I've seen them treat other girls the same as they treat me.
Yet guys always like to put their arms around me and just try to link fingers with mine and hold me. I'm always laughing and kind of pushing them away sort of trying to figure out if their being serious or not. I mean their my friends, but I wouldn't know if a guy actually liked me and told me to my face I'm just that sad. Not to talk bad about myself, but I don't have a clue how any of this works. So for those guys who like to put their arms around me and make me laugh, do they do that because they think I'm pretty and like me, or they just like hugging me because I'm cute and their friend? Would they hug an ugly girl? I really don't know if I'm pretty. Grownups tell me that all the time, yet guys at school don't seem to go for a girl like me. Help me, please.

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Carebear87 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Ok here is the number one thing...whether you're pretty or not is beside the point. You need to have some confidence in yourself. Most men like women who are sure of themselves and confident in their good qualities. And the only guys who like women who are insecure are probably insecure themselves and may possibly be the kind of overly-controlling crazy boyfriends that you don't want. And I've had experience in this area. Now, on to the "pretty" problem. From what it sounds like, you are more than likely a pretty girl. So pretty much you just need to chill out, stop worrying, find your good qualities, and love yourself. My sister was a very pretty girl who never had a boyfriend in high school. Her problem was that she was too shy. Now, she died a little over six months ago. But she had just started her freshman year of college, and had met this great guy who fell hard for her. And she fell hard for him. And even though she is gone now, I think that, even though she was sad during high school because she never had a boyfriend, she was happy that it was so much more special when she finally met a guy who was worth it. So stop worrying about finding a guy. When the right one comes along, he will think you're pretty, and he will love who you are as a person, and he will be worth your time. Trust me.
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Question Asker I'm so sorry about your sister, and thank you very much, I now realize that there is someone out there for me. - 8 months ago

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Curious-Plumber (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Usually when a guy starts touching a girl a lot it's because he likes her. I know I don't normally touch my female friends a lot. Then again if you've been friends for a long time, then maybe your guy friends are just comfortable with you, so maybe it's harmless. I'm sure you're not ugly, most guys aren't as concerned with looks as you'd think. I know I don't look for supermodels or super thin girls. If you resemble anything that looks like a female you probably look fine. Don't worry about your looks. As far as the touching is concerned it's hard to tell, if it seems they can't keep their hands off you, they probably like you. Also, if they laugh at a lot of the things you say even though its not that funny that may mean they like you.
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ramkid (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
Don't feel bad for not knowing whether they like you, it's really hard to tell if someone is interested or just being flirty/friendly. Also you're not the only girl who doesn't feel pretty, almost every girl I know seems to think they're not pretty. That said it's hard to know if they like you from what you've told. Guy's your age usually aren't that forward unless they are comfortable with a girl. Some signs that a guy likes you are if you catch him staring at you when he thinks you're not looking , or if you are in a group and his focus is on you. If any of them do this then it's a sure sign they like you. Also you might want to try not pushing their arms away the next time. This might build their confidence and then they'll be able to give you more obvious signs they like you. I know it's not a lot but I hope I helped
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