Okay, so I am a college student who developed a crush on a guy I worked with this semester but I'm done working there now. I wanted to hook up with him before I left for the summer (don't want a relationship. ) I tried to flirt with him at work but I'm kinda shy. He is a VERY busy guy, with a lot going on in his life right now. I asked him to come to a school party and he said yes, but ended up not coming because of a family emergency.
When I finished working there, I emailed him saying I'd be sad if I left for the summer without saying bye to him. He responded by saying "we should get together or something before you leave" and gave me his number. I called a day later (Thursday night) and he didn't answer or call back. Oh, and he knew this was my last weekend in town and that I'll be here this week but have exams.
So Saturday I texted him saying "you tease. You give me your number but don't wanna come party with me? " He called 15 min after but I missed it. When I called back he didn't answer and didn't call back. I texted him later on and he responded saying he was at a funeral, his granddads, a bbq and that's why he hadn't responded. I texted back telling him he should come to a party that night if he was available. He didn't respond and obviously didn't show. It's Sunday night and I still haven't heard from him.
I'm leaving in 1 week. So the question is. Should I just let it go? I mean, clearly he's not that into me but it's not like I want to date him. I know he really is busy, and I'm not sure if I made it clear that I wanted to hook up or not? I know its not because he doesn't think I'm hot, because I am, and he has touched my waist, picked me up once, and stuff like that. I don't want to be desperate or annoying so in a way I feel like I should just give up, but I also would be mad if it never happened just because he's really busy and oblivious to what I'm trying to do. What do you think?
Personally, I think you should just keep trying but don't give yourself any hope, as in keep trying, but don't like, care if he doesn't call back or something. XD harder done than said.
This is a tough call. Apparently, there are things going on in his life. Rather than try to "hook up" with him, try calling and have a decent conversation with him. If he doesn't ever return your call for whatever reason, then just let it go. He has your number, and if he decides to call you he will. I wouldn't continue to call and text without a response. However, if you call and text, he returns, but you miss him, that's different because it happens. If you think he's not really interested, then I wouldn't waste my time because you may end up disappointed. If he really is int you, then he will call when his life kinda slows down. Good luck!
Do you think that he's really worth your time? What I'm trying to say is. I don't think its even worth worrying about. Obviously you only wanna bang him. Either he's not that interested in you, or he's just very busy like you said, either way I don't think its worth making yourself look like a cat in heat. If he's attracted to you then I'm sure other guys will be, you will get laid eventually. Until that time don't give everyone the image of my old cat furry. Rubbing your ass all over the ground and waiting for the next tomcat to jump on your behind.
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