I have a few friends that are girls and I have no problem talking to them you know. But when it comes to talking to "hot" girls or "hot" girls talking to me, I just get butterflies in my stomach and don't know what to do. I don't even know what to say anymore. Why is this?! I don't have problems talking to girls, just the "hot" ones I have. What difference does it make? They're all girls, girls are girls, why am I so nervous and scared!? Please help!
Guys sometimes get intimidated by "hot" girls, thinking they're out of their dating "possibility range". I don't really think that is your case, because I think what happens to you is normal and also happens to us girls - you just want to make a good impression! You probably want to come through as a fun, and friendly guy - just imagine you're talking to your friends, and maybe this way you can think of topics to talk about! Hope I helped! :)
I think that maybe your a little afraid because some girls that are "HOT" tend to be a little rude and over the top sometimes, and you don't want to feel embarrassed when you get tongue tied! I would just relax and play it calm with them. Go luck darlin'!
Your friends are different because you've probably known them for a while, and are used to talking to them. It's different when your talking to the "hot" girls, because you don't want to embarrass yourself in front of them. Just breathe and talk to them like you do to your other friends. They are just girls, after all.
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