Okay, so I met this guy and HE advanced ME a lot of the time in the first meeting blah blah. So anyway, he texts me the next night & we talked for a bit but then he just didn't reply all a sudden. I think, okay maybe he's busy. He gave me his link & I never added him, but I gave him mine too and he didn't add me though he's been on today. I'm confused, should I disappear for a few days to see if he contacts me? Should I text him? I don't to seem desperate and scare him away I like him. HELP
Update: Update: In the first & only text messaging convo, we flirted a lot. Then he just didn't reply all a sudden. I didn't say anything odd haha so I don't know why
7 months ago
Update: Haha okay last update I think, he and I don't live in the same state. He won't be back to where I live for a few months.
7 months ago
Well I update those links once in a blue moon (almost literally), even if you add him and he doesn't add you I wouldn't worry about it. Try to be straight forward as possible guys ( I know from experience) can be dense in reading signals. It is also possible that he might have lost interest. However you did say he advanced a lot; keep flirting and see what happens! Good luck!
Link was to my myspace. So since he was on, he could've added me. I mean, I could've added him too I guess, but if he really likes me he'll add me right?
As for dense reading signals, we flirted the whole time in our first & only text messaging convo.
I don't know if I should initiation another convo with him since he didn't reply to my last text. Should I wait for a few days? You're a guy, let me knooow - 7 months ago
Answerer
Absolutely, he should definitely added you at some point. Keep the conversations going, if he is interested he should surely reply. The text (initial) could have been a thing of the moment. If it doesn't work out don't worry too much about it, there are plenty of fish in the ocean.
He gave you his link, so maybe try adding him, and then wait and see what happens. Texting him again right away runs some risk of scaring him. Adding his link, not so much. After a few days, if he doesn't add your link, and doesn't text you, maybe then you could send him a short, not-at-all-desperate "what's up" kind of text message. And then wait again. If none of that provokes any action on his part, then maybe, just maybe, he's not really that into you. Or maybe he's super busy. But way too early to worry about that now. Just be patient, and take it one step at a time. Good luck!
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When: 7 months ago
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