Is confidence always best?

Being Confident is usually best because then the girl knows that your being serious in making your feelings clear and because your being forward and straight up which is really good. Being nervous is all that bad because most likely the girl will realize that it took a lot of nerve for you to ask her out .

Sometimes it is difficult when the guy is nervous, because the girl might not be able to know where his feelings truly lay. It's better for the guy to be confident and go on and ask the girl out so that at least he would get an answer and be able to either go on and go with the girl or move on and find someone else.

Don't confuse being nervous with a lack of confidence.

True confidence is taking that step forward. Sometimes you will fall, sometimes you will walk right through to success. Most times however, you will get scraped, and bruised, and will be forced to take another step, and then another, but if you keep at it, you will prevail.

You will be nervous a lot in life, but it's your confidence that will make you stand up to that and push through, rather than let it keep you from ever trying. Asking her out shows you are confident, controlling the sweating and stuttering will come with time.

Best of luck.