This is the second time I have felt like my boss tried to make a pass at me. The first time, I felt like she "created" a little sexual tension, to which I didn't respond. We're having a working lunch tomorrow, and today she said - "we can take longer since it is working lunch". Not sure if gave enough info, but do you guys see anything here or am I just making things up?
Secondly: what should I do - lie low or make a move? In all honesty, I'd love to make out with her.
If you do anything to entice her or make an obvious move on her you look like the sexual-harraser. Damn double standard (but its true). She has decided to extend the lunch, so yes, go with it. Let her make the moves on her. Looks like Miss Boss lady is not very shy either -- so, yes she will make a very obvious gesture. She seems quiet forward and aggressive with her tactics. She will step-it-up pretty quick. If you are interested in her a romantic/sexual way - simply comply with her gestures. Do not initiate anything otherwise she could very easily scream sexual harassment. You do not want that!
These days you have to be careful as you can be served up with sexual harassment. Lol But just take it slow and see were it will go. But I think you might find out tomorrow.
Charm her and try to make her laugh at lunch; that might be borderline flirting, but it's safe . If she really enjoys lunch and laughs then you'll know she likes you. But make sure she is single.
Sorry, but I really haven't read anything that indicated a move or pass in your case to jeopardize your job. Therefore, if your are interesting in her let her make all the moves that might lead up to her bedroom before then hang tight and wait, Cheers
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