I am 17, she 16. Well at the beginning of the school year (September) it was obvious she did like me, but I didn't at the time because I liked someone else. She tried her damn hardest everyday In class to get my attention and sit near me in assemblies or speak with me, I never really complied because I was just plain not interested.
Well 9 weeks roll by (November) and the schedules change and she isn't in my class anymore. Now then I realized, DAMMIT WHAT WAS I THINKING! And I come to notice this gal was giving me the stare through the halls of school (small school). And until a few weeks ago I though not a thing of it. I notice this girl, every time I walk by her, she stares, when I look back for a split second. She turns her head away (Typical girl eh? ). In the lunch line when I am sitting in my table, I see her from the distance with her gals, once again, lets look at me until I look back. A few times she would deliberately cut in front of my path while I was walking, don't know what that was about, and In the mornings when hardly anyone is in the school, walking in halls, usually alone like a lot. Will either A: Go to the direct opposite side of the hall as me right as I come in sight. Then there is B: Cut directly to the side of me and get within a hairs distance of me. The other day I had a perfect chance, I was in the line and she and her friend just turn around and ******* look right at me for a good 2 minutes, I just pretended not to notice because this was just awkward as hell for me.
This gal has very few friends, I can tell, clearly very shy but for some reason now I want her. Drop dead gorgeous to me, and from what I observe she and I may get along well. She may also be intimidated, I guess you could say I am one of the more attractive males at our school. But what she clearly doesn't know is I am much much more intimidated by her, she might want me to make a move, but the way she does her thing it just can't happen.
The real trouble comes in how the hell I am supposed to approach a girl who is turning her head like this (I am shy too, I admit). If does she likes me (Which I think she might, I can just kind of feel it too. ) Why can't she just say something, I don't think there is a way I can, Its hard to talk to someone who is coming your way while walking. Should I just wait until she makes a bolder mover, or just say **** this? My options are in the halls, done (Go out to lunch now, so no cafeteria). Its too hard to do it there though! And we have one more month and I want her by then. Give me options, also could this mean anything even? Maybe she doesn't really like me and I am over analyzing things?
Update: I want her by June, she is so cute it makes me cringe.
3 months ago
Update: I don't mean that in a materialistic way lol :D
3 months ago
Go for her! Even though it's almost the middle of June.keep trying! I've been told by many people that I'm cute, pretty, even foxy o.0 and I've never been approached by a guy. I'm also really shy and when she was cutting in front of you, she might've been trying to do an "accidental bump", but just never followed through. It takes some work with shy girls, because it takes time for us to warm up. I know if I was approached by my crush, I would probably freeze up for a few seconds or not know what to say except for hi and other short answers. But keep trying! Surprises, surprises haha! Tell me how it goes or how it went.whatever :)
(this sounds extremely familiar to what I'm going through, same ages and everything, except I'd be the girl of course)
Dude! Seriously, we girls (most of us anyway) will not approach the guy we like. Rejection is our biggest fear so man up and go up to her or you'll probably sit around forever waiting. And if she really is as gorgeous as you say she is then other guys probably have their eye on her too so make a move before someone else does.
Jr, Jr, what are you doing? you got a done deal and you are doing nothing! If I am one of your fella I'll wack right now. The next time you see her: -stop her and say HI -ask her how she like about the new class -tell her you kinda miss her (in a funny way) -ask her if she wanna hang out sometime -NO RUSH, AND LOOK HER IN THE RIGHT EYE, ( focus on one eye make it easier )
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I'm an outdoors man and so it's important to me that my gal enjoy that too. The ideal date for me is to go on a hike in the mountains and then enjoy a romantic lunch with some cool wine.
I would dress for the hike.
The date ends with us making out a little... and maybe taking in the stars together.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm sweet and caring, the kind of guy who wants to connect with a woman and have a great relationship together.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
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