I like a guy with a good sense of humor. Loyal honest and trustful. I kind of like the bad boy types and I know it bad cause I been cheated on and he has totally treated me bad and cheated that's what I like.
Most girls like guys who can make them laugh, and don't always act cool. Girls also like guys who will play around with them and have good personalities. Most girls like hott guys but the way you act around them is the way they see you, you could be really hott but have a bad personalities so they look ugly. Just be yourself and most girls will like you for that. We also like boys who are on the bad side a little, also don't look at other girls when you have a girl already.
We like tall guys with great personalities. Unfortunately. Most of us are shallow creatures and we want really hot guys, but sometimes if a guy is funny/ charming enough, it makes him good looking. I've met quite a few guys that weren't the hottest things, but they were just so hilarious that I ended up falling for them. We love charm, a sense of humor, and a gentleman. We also like an intelligent guy, but not if all he does is work. A guy that plays sports and works out is also a huge turn-on. Laziness is definitely a huge turn-off. No girl wants a guy that sits around drinking beer and watching football all day. Another turn-off is when a guy has a "wandering eye" (aka he is on a date with you but he is checking out other girls). Hope I helped :)
Honestly about 7 out of 10 girls will probably want a guy that they think is hott, then they would see if your funny (personally I LOVE a guy that can make me laugh a lot) then how kind or polite you are. But mostly only 3 top things: Hottness, Funniness, Kindness.
GIRLS claim the same thing that women claim. That's the problem. It sounds nice.
Girls CLAIM to want a nice guy, a sweet guy who will make them laugh, take them shopping, etc etc. But they want that AND the shallow things, they just don't mention the shallow things because a lot of them don't want to be seen as shallow (and yet, very often, it still comes across). But when we men can fulfill those basic, genuine things, we're often left behind in the dust going "what the heck happened? " They're less likely to mention appearance, but MORE likely to demand it secretly.
Then there are shallow girls who are at least more honest about it. While you probably want to avoid them, they do deserve a very minor amount of respect for being blatant about it. At least they're being honest.
Now, classy women tend to be a bit more honest about what they want, and it's a bit more attainable for real men to have - They actually do tend to be alright with the deeper level things, and honestly, the shallow things don't matter so much to them because they're often aware that the shallow things are not as great as they seem from the outside.
I'm lucky to know a select few women, and it's like a different ball game entirely. But, like I said, it can be difficult to tell the difference between the shallow, dishonest girls and the real women until you get to know them better.
Actually, on a slightly different topic, being yourself is the worst thing you could do, that is, unless you're cocky, and "hot. " If you're average in a lot of ways, you're most likely going to have a next to impossible time of finding a genuinely awesome woman until you're at least in your late 20's, if not 30's.
With girls, you have to be different, and you have to work out, and be hot. With women, you should be the best version of you - she might demand it, (hopefully not too much) but you should WANT to. Not to impress her, but because you love her and yourself - and the nice thing is you can be "average" in a few of those shallow things and the genuine women tend to stick through that stuff.
Well highschool chicks, they want the popular guys, the football jocks, prom king stuff like that but in the real world when all that doesn't matter unless your a pro athlete, they look for confidence, sense of humor, that want to see if you will let them walk all over you and if you do its bye bye to you, and they want to know if you are going to be there for her, for example if she's scared will you hold her close, if she's stressed out will you make her feel better. They don't want a wimp they want a man, they want him to be the one to make the decisions. They don't want an asshole, but they don't want a nice guy, they want a good guy, he's not an asshole but he won't put up with their crap and he's not super nice by trying to win them over with gifts.
Women are primarily attracted to high social status, personality, and looks. Generally in that order too.
Women want to f*** the prom king/quarterback, not the social introverts playing D&D during study hall and there's a very good reason for that. The prom king/quarterback could be f*** ugly, but because of his status it makes his desirable to women. Check out Magic Bullets, the Venusian Arts Handbook for more info one generating attraction and The Game by Neil Strauss as to what's possible when you master being a socially savvy male.
I agree with Belleza - a lot of the hot guys at our school are complete jerks. It's usually the ones "playing D&D during study hall" that actually have a personality girls are looking for. - 4 months ago
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Belleza actually confirms what I'm saying. Looks aren't as important to women. Personality is normally next up the chain with social status being tops. This is why celebs, politicians, etc get so much action. It's not their riches, it's the social status they hold that drives everything else, aka the Prince Charming complex--women want to be chosen and swept off their feet by a high value man. The subtext is they want to be the #1 gal of a man with lots of choice (men of high social status). - 4 months ago
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I'm not overly shy so if I see someone I like I will just start talking to them.. depends on the setting I guess. I don't do any true "pickup lines", but I do often say something like 'hey, you look nice - are you here with your friends tonight." or "Hey, having a good time" If they are interested this seems to work most of the time.
How do they typically respond?
Most girls either just walk away or make small talk and leave.. but some appreciate the straightforward approach and will keep talking to me. Any suggestions?
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