Details: 1. This person is coming back to me for the third time. 2. Changes: He got contacts and has stopped all drinking. I also wear contacts and don't drink at all. It is also important to note that he did undergo a whole range of transformations when he came back the second time around (became more religious, etc). 3. This person kept asking me again and again while we talked if I met someone, where I had been going in the evenings, what I had been doing in the evenings, and what I would do that day after we finished talking. 4. He also kept saying that I should find a guy and was worried for me as a friend. However, he mentioned this SO MANY times during the call that it makes me a bit suspicious. 5. He also calls me later that week but doesn't say anything. Instead he makes these squeaking noises. I think he was trying to see if I was with someone, since I was not online as often and he was online ALL DAY after we last talked. 6. He also tried to make me feel jealous by saying that he has a potential prospect back home and that he might get married. However, a few things to note are the following: 1) He was not excited about this, 2) This was not the first thing he mentioned when I asked what he had been up to during all this time, 3) He is more liberal than I am and says that he can't find a spouse from back home, 4) His parents have tried to get him married to girls from back home and he has said no all the time , and 5) He kept saying there are no details to disclose and there is nothing! 7. He actually went and watched PS I love you in the theater by HIMSELF, after I told him that I watched it but didn't say that he should watch it!
He changed for me but you know guys won't admit that they actually changed for you. So, he used to wear glasses and I was ok with it. He wanted to get eye surgery and I just recommended that he shouldn't do that but if he wanted to get rid of his glasses, contacts are better. We stopped talking for 2 months and then when we started talking again, he got CONTACTS! I didn't even notice it until he mentioned it. - 7 months ago