Sitting in a coffee shop made me think of this question, as I listen to a girl act as if she is way to giggly a stupid in order to flirt with a guy. I'm not saying this is a horrible thing to do, I mean I am sure I have acted this way in some form or another. But, girls have you ever acted like you were more stupid than you are or super giggly and annoying to try and get the attention of a guy?
To add some male input here. Personally, a girl who acts dumb is totally killing her chances with me. I'm not sure why any guy would want to be with a dumb girl. I wouldn't be able to stand it. It's hard enough not making fun of them when they hit on me in a ridiculously dumb way. Like, totally saw you sitting across the, like, bar, twirling your like, blond, like hair. That is SO TOTALLY AWESOME.
No, I'd never dumb myself down. I think it turns guys off. So I'd rather not. I just talk to them. Laugh at their jokes and simple stuff like that to flirt with them. But not act dumb. But I know what you mean, I have seen lots of girls (even my own friends) act dumb to get a guy's attention. They'd either pretend like they don't know anything and try to ask the guys for help. And of course the poor guy is just going "wtf". Acting dumb when you really aren't is personally not my choice.
I don't try to act stupid, sometimes it just comes out that way when I'm nervous. I don't think I do that though. IT may happen. Some girls don't know when their acting that way. I think it's just something that happens when your trying to get the attention of a guy. It's been a really long time since this last happened.
Nervousness could definitely contribute to that and maybe some girls don't realize when they do it, but I think its funny to see it when it happens around me. :-) - 5 months ago
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Lol, sounds like you take pleasure in watching others mistakes. ^. ^ - 5 months ago
I have, I did it recently and it attracted the attention of a very attractive doctor at the hospital where I work at. We traded numbers and I did get what I wanted but at what price? I had to lose everything that my mom had taught me and things I had learned in the past just to obtain the attention of someone of the opposite sex. Turns out he only gave me his number because when he was a student doing his residency we had a conversation about romantic love and a few other things. He remember me from that so it was okay.
I would probably do it again maybe but for now; its a lot more fun to be me because apparently men are more attracted to women who have some sort of common sense about them.
I don't act dumb when flirting with a guy. But I do giggle and smile-WELL THATS FLIRTING! But I do know a couple of people that act dizzy and stupid to get some guys!. It depend how you look at it!
I wouldn't dumb myself down. Where I come from guys don't take much notice of dumb girls - smart girls are more attractive to them (most of the time. ) But I guess I act a bit more witty so if anything I made myself appear smarter!
What's so attractive about dumbing yourself down anyway!?
No idea what's attractive about a dumb girl, I think some guys might think that mean they have the upper hand. And why you would want to give them that feeling is beyond me.
I agree that being witty is so much more appealing than stupid. - 5 months ago
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