Theres this guy that I work with and he and I have been flirting constantly for the past couple of months. We've worked together for about 6 months and in that time we have become really good friends. We've hung out a couple of times and he talk on the phone all of the time(Never mentioning anything about a girlfriend). Whenever we are at work, we usually end up talking and joking around with each other for most of the time even though there's at least 7 other girls that work there. He even jokes about what we would be like as a couple. Even the people we work with constantly tell me that they can tell he likes me. While we were on break today I was talking to a friend on my phone and he was joking and talking to me so much that my friend on the phone commented that he should just ask me out already.
The day was going VERY well until he started talking about what he was going to do this weekend(As we usually do). He said that he was going to "Work some overtime, hang out with friends, and take his girlfriend out. " After he said this he paused and looked at me. I awkwardly tried to brush off what he had just told me, laughed, and I changed the subject. For the rest of the day he even continued to flirt with me as usual, but at this point I wasn't in the mood, I was upset with him. The weirdest part was later on in the evening he makes a comment to me "Hey, I love you. In a non romantic sort of way of course. I mean it would be kind of awkward if you actually liked me you know. " WTF does THAT mean? It was so random and does not make sense to me. I hadn't said anything about liking him so why did he feel the need to put that out there like that? And is it normal for a guy to NEVER mention having a girlfriend to someone he's getting close to, and then all of a sudden one day he feels the need to in the middle of flirting with them? (Is it possible she's a new girlfriend? ) Is he testing me or something? Many questions I know, but I have turned down good guys down over this one guy and I'm not too happy about it.
Well I know I never mention that I'm in a relationship unless the person specifically asks, it's just weird to say that "Oh by the way I have a girlfriend" because it makes you sound like a dick who thinks that you must like them.
Well as a flirty guy, I am also a very private person. I generally don't advertise whether I'm taken or not. Maybe he is too and when he absentmindedly said something about it and saw you get upset that could be why he said the whole non-romantic way thing. So your best bet is to confront him about your feelings/being flirty (in a nice way mind you).
He sounds like a flirty person to me, could he be possible trying to cheat on her girlfriend? He might accidentally said "take girlfriend out" by mistake since you said he paused. The thing is you need to make sure he does have a girlfriend or not, he surely can just make the girlfriend thing up and try to see if you get jealous/shy and shows signals to him that you like him, this might be a test if he doesn't actually have a girlfriend.
My opinion? He's totally testing you. When he said he was going to take his girlfriend out in his oh so nonchalant way, He was expecting you to be like "What! What the hell! " When you didn't I guess he figured he'd just drop it. Guys usually don't pull something like that for fear of getting bitch slapped. Next time you talk and he flirts try saying something like "Look, I don't think you're girlfriend would approve of you acting this way. " Then see what he says in response. If he does have a girlfriend which I think is slim to none, then bitch slap him as hard as you can. Lol
Could be testing you just to see what you would have said, since you said he paused or if he does have a girlfriend he might not have met to say that. Either way I think you should find out what's going on with him. - 3 months ago
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LOL That is totally what one of my friends said too. That how I feel right about now so he'd better watch out. Lol - 3 months ago
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