I met him & we talked on the phone for a couple days straight, and now nothing. Its been a week, don't know what to make of it. Should I call him? Or be aloof and do my own thing
Update: In the phone convos we totally hit it off and flirted a lot back and forth, so that's why I'm confused with the no contact for a week
8 months ago
Is he a huge sports fan? Lot's of playoff activity in basketball and hockey lately. But you should have heard something. It does sound odd. But you can always call to say you were checking to make sure things are ok. If you get a lot of silence and no answers than something has changed. Or he could have had a crisis in the immediate family; had to go out of town. Any number of things. Try to not speculate.
Haha no he's not a sports fan so I don't know. Yeah I could call him but he's out of state and I know he gets roaming fees, so should I just text him? Don't know what I should say - 8 months ago
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I think whether a girl should call a guy depends on the situation and partly on whether they were already both calling each other before. Some people are hard on cell phones, but not one word in a week? Text sounds like a possibility, but It also seems like he could have found time to fire off a phrase of text during that time. What to say? You saw his photo on a milk carton? More seriously, use the favorite topic before or ask something about where it was he went. Or just send a "? ". - 8 months ago
Okay. So I shouldn't contact him at all? What do you propose I do then. What if he's thinking the SAME thing ''i can't call her because then she'll know I'm interested and play games with me'' - 8 months ago
Just call him if you haven't already. He probably just got busy. Now if he doesn't answer no more and you leave him a message and he don't return it, then he was not interested like he thought. But for now, call him and c how long it takes him to respond. More than 2 days after you call him then I think you know he was not that into you.
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