I really like this shy guy at my school. He is big on sports and religion, which is a good thing at my school. Well, one day he decided to invite me to his church and I came just to see what it is like and it was really fun. He invited me to his church a second time and he hung around me, sat next to me and asked me if I wanted to watch him and his friends play basketball. I had a fun time but it seems like he has trouble talking to me. He just clams up like he doesnt know what to say. At school he says hi in the hallways but he seems to be even more shy around me at school. I was going to the movies this weekend and invited him to come along, but he had a big baseball tournament going on. The main problem: I am so sick of hiding my feelings from him and wishing something would happen between us every day that goes by. I want to tell him so bad, but I'm scared that I might freak him out or push him away. I feel like just calling him and telling him my true feelings. What should I do. I really do need some advice here. Thanks for listening.
Yes. I didn't even read the paragraphs, all I need is "should I tell him my true feelings" and the answer is always yes. Girls these days try to convey they're feelings in any way possible outside of being upfront and honest, but truly, there is nothing a guy wants more then for a girl to be honest with him.
Well, the problem is I don't know how to tell him and if it would make things really awkward for both of us. I don't know if I should just call him tonight and tell him flat out my real feelings. He's a pretty shy guy, and I'm really afraid I will only ruin things by doing this. But on the other hand, not telling him these pent up feelings is going to drive me mad. - 6 months ago
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Dont call him. Talk to him in person. And trust me, even if you get totally rejected you will feel SO much better then having tormented yourself for a while trying to decide. Personally, personally, the best way a girl can express her feelings to a guy is to just walk up and kiss him. Not in like public, but if the opportunity arises where y'all are alone, just stop him and go for it. I would say that 7 times out of 10 even if he doesn't like you he'll go with it. - 6 months ago
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