There is the this girl in my history class who is very, very pretty. I thought she was out of my league when I first saw her (and I am a pretty confident guy), but she is also very shy. Sometimes in class and in the hallways I will see her looking at me but then she turns away when I look back and I do the same thing. We make eye contact and she smiles when she sees me some days, but then other days she seems to ignore me. I have a hard time talking to her in the hallway because I usually see her at her locker (which is next to my ex's) and we sit on the opposite sides of class. Is she interested?
I'd say there's a REALLY good chance that she likes you. Definitely take a chance and talk to her. Trust me on this because if a guy I liked did that I'd be so happy. Just go for it! I'm extremely shy to guys as well and I do that too. And I'm always wondering if the one guy I like likes me too because he's shy. The funny thing is he is in one of my classes and doesn't talk to me (even though he sits two seats away from me) and always seems to be by my locker. Like every time I turn around he's right there talking to a friend or something.
Yes she is totally interested in you. She sounds just like me. I currently like a guy and I do the same thing. Ask her out it would thrill her if you did because it takes the stress of trying to ask you out off her shoulders. If you want it to be her that asks you out make her confident that you like her. Smile at her, make eye contact. Oh and don't look away when she looks at you it drives us shy girls crazy because it makes us wonder whether you like us or don't like us. Also if you don't turn away it will give her a little thrill to know that she might actually have a chance with you and for an added bonus smile at her when she looks at you. She may look embarressed when you look at her after doing this but she will be really happy and excited. Just basically make it obvious that you like her. Oh and just so you know she probably does think you are out of her league if you are a good looking athletic guy (especially football player).
Ok now I actually have a question to ask you. The guy I like is really popular and a football player. He made a lot of eye contact and was smiling at me for a few days but lately he has been avoiding my gaze and acts really nervous and out of place. Do you think he likes me or just knows that I like him and doesn't like me back? (Yeah I know I was supposed to be answering your question but when I asked mine like no one answered it) - 5 months ago
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If you are just like the girl I described then your probably very pretty. He might like you just go up and talk to him. If he's popular he's probably confident, and if he's confident than the more likely he will be to ask you out. If your in his class see if his shoulders are pointed to you, it's one of those things us guys are totally unaware that we do it when we like somebody. Just out of curiosity what do girls think of baseball/track players? - 5 months ago
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Its really not about the sport, its about the guy that plays the sport. In general if you are not too scrawny and too big muscle wise or fat then its good. There are lots of hot track and baseball players but then again there are also a lot of unatractive kids that play them, but if a girl likes you you probably are one of the better looking ones. My other question to is (i actually have 2) does it make a girl look wimpy to ask a guy out by note or should I suck it up and ask him out? - 5 months ago
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And my other question is would he act nervous around me if he didn't like me? Because when I'm around him he doesn't make eye contact and he acts nervous. In my spanish class there is no assigned seating and he chooses not to sit by me. Would he do this because he's trying to tell me he doesn't like me or because he doesn't like the awkward nervousness and he likes me? Ugh this is so confusing and I really want to ask him out before school ends and before exams start. - 5 months ago
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But the thing that confuses me most of all is that a few days ago he was showing signs of liking me and now he's like contradicting his actions. I know this is really long. Sorry lol. - 5 months ago
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He might contradict himself I do around this girl and I still like her. See if you see him more often since he has sent mixed signals because if so then he is trying to be near you. Considering you are kind of similar to this girl I need an opinion on this. I have been told I have nice body (especially abs) but one of my friends who is a girl was poking my stomach one day in history and I'm worried it may have bothered the girl I liked. She isn't very flirtatious. - 5 months ago
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Unless you flirted back with the girl that was poking at your ribs it shouldn't bother her. The guy I like always touches girls but I can tell that he doesn't like them. Seriously though ask her out on monday! She will be like the happiest girl in the world. I can pretty much guarantee she will say yes. Get her alone though. But you still didn't answer my first question. Is it bad to ask him out by note? I'm giving him till the friday before exams to ask me out and if he doesn't I'm going to ask him. - 5 months ago
I think because she looks at you so much she probably is but I'm not sure. You should still try and talk to her in the hallway. Even though it's beside your ex's locker she shouldn't bother you and it would be the best place to start a conversation seeing as she's on the other side of the classroom.
If you think that she's out of your leauge, chances are she may feel that you're out of her leauge. I would say, talk to her more, compliment her, like. 'Your hair looks really good today,' or something like that. The more you get an emotional connection with her, the more comfortable you will be to go up and say 'hi' to her at her locker, and you won't even care that your ex's is next to hers. The only way you'll be able to tell if she's interested in you, is if she likes talking to you, if she continues your conversations, and asks you questions about yourself, (well depending on your topic of discussion of course. ) The number one thing you can never do though, is doubt yourself. Never doubt that she's 'too good' for you, that she's 'out of your leauge. ' Everyone gets the jitters with that someone special, but you just can't doubt yourself, because if you do, you'll never at a shot.
She doesn't talk much at all though even with some of her friends. The one time I did talk to her she was very smiley but had like one word responses. That's a good thing from a shy girl right? - 5 months ago
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Yes I think she is interested but she is shy so try to talk to her when she's not around your ex
Enough to strike up a conversation, definitely. The eye contact and the smiles are both fairly good signs.
Try talking to her before and after class. (Assuming that you've got 5-10 minutes between classes, or that the teacher stops early from time to time. ) If that doesn't work, try catching up with her after school.
Since she's shy, if you just talk to her a little at a time, over time, (keep the chat going, but let things drop off if it feels like you're forcing the dialog) eventually she'll get to know you, and open up a bit. Once at ease around you, she'll probably flirt with you a bit more obviously. (As frafragomer said). You'll feel more at ease around her, too; asking her out should cause less jitters later.
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