So this girl has asked me to spend some time with her , and I was like ok cool we have been flirting(eye contact/touches, all the works ect.) and maybe this showed she liked me. at least that's what some people (including my mom) and my brain/heart tell me. so when we did hang out and an unexpected visitor (her 7 yr old niece) had to stay with us the whole time I had (about 2 1/2 hours) to spend with her. we had talked about personal likes and dislikes on past occasions. but with her niece there it was kind of a mood downer, it just bummed me and it made me nervous for some reason :(. I mean ive talked to girls and asked girls ive "liked" on dates.. now this girl I like her , but I'm falling for her so it puts more pressure on me. I thought this was the chance I had to ask her out on an actual date but I dunno if I blew it by not making any moves or would it be ok to do it another time?
she even started to show me pics of her and her family and her baby daughter ( which I have no problem with because I understand all the things that come with that type of relationship)
she is my co-worker as well. so ill get to see her 2 days from today before the weekend. so I was wondering if it would be a good idea to even try and ask her out then after I spent an evening with her and made no move? I just don't want to seem like an idiot. I can't really tell if those are flirty I want to be with you moves from her or I just want to be friends signs. I think thinking of rejection and being nervous make my mind all screwy. hope you can help!
In my opinion, yes maybe she does like you and she's showing some interest in you. JUST ASK HER OUT, and put aside the thought of rejection because you may never know, she might say yes.
Just because you didn't make the move on that day doesn't mean you blew it, not all guys can ask a girl out first time round, just do it second time you see her if you really want to date her or you can take it slow and hints it now and then then ask her on a date. If she bring her niece again and you don't mind her niece to know, you can try some "trick way"(so she see you differently from other guys) like write a note give it to her niece to give it to the girl with you next to her, this way you excluded the nervousness of asking and you can see her reaction straight away.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
asked Yesterday
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