Ok, I admit it - I'm in love with my co-worker. Question is. Does she get it? Does she know what she's doing? Is there any way on earth this could ever be "just friends" or "no I didn't mean it that way"? All of these things happen but neither of us has openly discussed that it's going on. I feel like I can't breathe.
You lean against a wall and stare directly at me. When I break eye contact and look back up, you are still staring. I stay home from work. By noon you leave me a message saying my desk is empty. Your voice sounds different. You call me on a weekend and say you dialed my number by mistake. You call me in the evening to tell me you noticed a typo. You call me from a store late at night because you can't remember the name of something we were talking about. You leave me a message late at night telling me you love something I bought you. Your voice sounds syrupy. I regret not answering the phone. you make me coffee and draw me pictures. I buy you sushi. You make me set it up and serve it. It's like you want to see how I will do it.
I find you watching me from across the office. You stand over me while I'm sitting in my cubicle. When I turn a page, my hand grazes the front of your pants by accident. Why are you standing so close for that to happen? We have emailed each other over 400 times in 3 months minimum.
Ok and there are lots of things I've done/said/implied. But I mean is there any way this could ever be just platonic on her part?
Update: i get text message at 4am "i don't know what I want to be.". she emails me later and asks if I would like to buy her drinks tonight. I say yes. she chickens out at last minute. real late get texts/long dreamy voicemails. she is killing me. can't take it.
A month ago
Ask her out. It sounds like she's giving all kinds of signals. At first, they were subtle. Then, more blatant.
I have recently gone into signal overdrive with the guy I like. I was really subtle at first. I've since realized that I have to be really overt with it. Maybe that's what she's been doing with you.
Definitely ask her. Update us and let us know how the date goes. Oh, and MAKE SURE she knows it's a real date.
She is definitely flirting with you. Not only that but she is also TEASING you. Big time! She is having fun with you. Is she single?. How long have know if each other? Why don't you just speak up or send her an email?
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Well my ideal date would be the guy would come pick me up and be really sweet about meeting my parents and going over "The rules".We would go somewhere nice like to the movies and dinner would be a nice,simple first date.We'd see something probally funny or scary,but not really scary cause I don't really like those.He'd take me home later and he'd walk me to the door and whatever happens...happens
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Well that I'm in HS of course and hopefully more than he did before. He'll know I love music, for sure and the subjects in school I like or the ones I just cannot stand (like math, ew!) lol! Hopefully by the end of the date, he'll really come to understand me for me and we'll set a date to go out again, but like I said before whatever happens...happens.
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 3 months ago
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