Okay, I have noticed lately that I'm lacking in the whole holding conversations with guys thing (and flirting). I get kinda nervous when guys talk to me, especially if they're really cute. And even though I'm really just nervous, I think I come off as uninterested or stuck up.
Well if the guy is a good flirt he will try setting you up... Basically, when you flirt the idea is to see what you have in common. So ask questions. "What are you doing this weekend?" Then relate it back to you "Really, I really wanted to see that. Make sure you tell me how it is!"... Be yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. Some times saying something stupid is a lot easier and better than thinking of what to say. Once you are comfortable with yourself it will be a lot easier for guys to be comfortable with you. So be confident... the first words are the hardest and if you are already there than you got something going for you.
When I started dating my husband I was so nervous around him. But I tried not to it show to him. So one time I said something so stupid and cheesy that I started laughing at my own self. I remember I told him laughing "ha ha that was cheesy, wasn't it? Ha ha ha? " He started laughing and said "Yes, it was cheesy! ". Well, he said that since that moment he felt in love with me because of my sense of humor and vulnerability. He found it so refreshing and innocent!
So in other words, don't force yourself just be natural!
Relationships constantly evolve. If you are not feeling good about some of the changes that are happening in your relationship you are probably wondering if they are signs of an inevitable break up....
First: Let's start with an example, say -some kind of "friend" of yours- comes up to you and asks to borrow ten dollars. You give it to them, and when you ask for it back - they give you every excuse...
I want a boy who will move the hair away from my eyes, and then kiss me. Who will hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. A pretty boy, but not so pretty that I feel awkward....
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
asked 5 days ago
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