Theres this girl that I have liked for who knows when. She gave me signs that she liked me, laughing at jokes that were never that funny, looking at me, sitting by me, walking with me when ever she could and a bit more. Well One day she decides to ignore me. Goes on for about 2 weeks. On the third time she goes back with her X boyfriend. So about 1 week later I go and ask One of my best friends (who is female) who is one her best friends to ask her if she ever considered going out with me. To my surprise My friend reported yes, that she has. My theory is that She liked me a lot. She gave me signs, and she was waiting for me to make the move, and she ignores me to see what I do. I did nothing, so maybe she got ticked and went crawling to her X who she nows he'll say yes considering she was the one that dumped him. I think that she went with her X to see how id react and try to play hard to get. Does this seem reasonable or am I just fooling my self?
Crap I accidentally deleted my answer. Lemme remember what I was trying to say. Umm. I think its too bad that you are just now having this realization. Yes, she dropped hints continually and you didn't get it. They were pretty obvious too. The thing is girls display signs and when a guy refuses to pick up on it, it becomes tiring and she will most likely move on. I don't believe she got back with her ex to see about your reaction or play hard to get. She simply got sick and tired of waiting around for you to do something. Sometimes its like you dudes have sh*t for brains. We as girls can do everything short of writing " WILL YOU GO OUT WITH ME" in the sky and you still wonder if we like you. The answer honey is YES! Hopefully you won't be so absent minded next time you like someone.
Now if you still want the girl and don't want to give up then you have one option: Go talk to her. Make sure its private to that everything will be honest and personal Explain how you feel and that you didn't know how she felt about you and that you were kinda scared. The scary thing is putting your feelings on the line. She will either end up with you or not and that is chance you are risking.
I totally agree with all of the previous answerers, as old fashioned as it may seem the majority of girls still expect guys to make the first move and ask them out. She clearly gave you all the signals she could possibly give, when that didn't work she tried ignoring you for your attention, and when you acted as if you couldn't care less she went back to her old guy, either to make you jealous or because she figured she didn't have a chance with you and kinda liked him so said why not? GO TALK TO HER AND SORT THIS MESS OUT! Good luck!
I'm alright with the whole asking her. But how? Speaking to her normally like everybody else, kinda faded. So I wouldn't know what to say. - 3 months ago
Girls hide themselves they always want you to make a move it seems reasonable when one guy doesn't like her she finds one that does to make the other jealous
I agree with Baby-Gurl. I think you should talk to her about it. Maybe she is tired of waiting for you to make a move. Maybe she is trying to make you jealous so she gets your attention. If her friend said she likes you, I'm sure she does, so just talk to her! :)
It's possible. I think that maybe she just got bored and maybe got the message that you didn't like her. S0o0o I think that you should talk to her and tell her what' up.
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