I have been crushing on this girl for like 1 month now and I have no idea if she likes me or not. I think I'm a shy person because It took my friends girlfriend to tell my crush that I like her. I tried making my move on her by cutting one of my classes just so I can sit next to her at lunch. My friend tried to get me to talk to her but I wimped out and just sat there talking to her friend. Any suggestions?
I'm not going to be as harsh as the girls on this one because I know where you're coming from bro. I was in a similar situation where I had a really difficult time talking to this girl I had a serious crush on. I'm normally a really smooth guy when it comes to girls but for some reason this ONE girl I just couldn't handle, I was literally jumbling up sentences when I tried to talk to her.
The bad news is, the chances of you getting with this girl are getting lower and lower as time goes by, and I suggest you move on. Try dating other girls for a while and becoming friends with this girl, as it will take the pressure off the fact that you "like" her and if you both end up single down the road, you will be a lot more comfortable around her and who knows what will happen? This is the only way I could see this working out for you, because believe me, if you land in the awkward or creepy category, it's not worth the effort to even attempt to turn it around.
Geez, you sound like the guy who likes me right now. Trust me, it really isn't all that fun for me. His friend told me he liked me, and he occasionally tries coming up to me to talk to me, but then he freaks out and literally runs away. I know you probably don't run away from her, but you shouldn't tell a girl you like her and then never talk to her again. For me, that lovestruck guy's getting pretty damn annoying and creepy. Face your fears and approach her like a man. You can do it!
Yes. Get over it. How old are you? Because seriously that telephone game is childish. We don't wanna hear from everyone and their mother that you like us when you don't find it worth your time to come tell us yourself. It does kinda make you seem like a wimp, or that everyone is full of crap and you really don't like her. And if you came and sat down with her and only talked to her friend she may interpret that as you totally blowing her off. Not cool. Because I will tell you that girls try to read into stuff and if a guy who everyone said liked me, came and sat down and refused to say one word to me I'd be kinda pissed. Well. A lot pissed. Just ask her to hang out with you sometime. Give her some indication that you are actually interested. Because if you aren't giving any signals she might just move on to someone else.
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