I've been talking to this guy for 10 months now as a friend, I asked him out after talking to him for 3 months but he turned me down by saying "it was too sudden and he was sorry that he didn't mean to hurt me at all. " I still continuing talking to him but why he still flirting with me and get jealous of me with another guys. Sometime, he can be so sweet that I thought he likes me and sometime, he acts so cold that I don't want to talk to him anymore. He is a constant guy in my life because I can talk to him and if I need someone to talk , he is always there. So if he doesn't like me as a girlfriend then why he acts like this?
I don't think anyone can truly answer this but this person you speak of. By asking him this you may be setting yourself up for a disappointment but if you don't than you will always be in limbo until you know. You must also take into consideration that even if he likes you, he still has reservations of jumping into a relationship with you. For what reasons I don't know? If anything I'm guessing this is a result of a past relationship. If his response given at the time he turned you down was a white lie in such that you really aren't his type but pulling the "it's too sudden" card makes for an easier less awkward exit. If you ask how is that possible because he flirts and gets jealous, it could be that he just doesn't approve of these men, more likely though he does like you but now may feel awkward since he has rejected you in the past. He may also act like this because he fears he will lose your friendship to another guy. Perhaps you would not hang out with him much anymore. Don't stand for his cold fits! Put him on the spot. Ask him why he is behaving like that. It's nonconstructive to your friendship and makes you feel uncomfortable. If he is always there for you he should be happy for you if you find something in someone that he could not allow you to find in him.
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