Do guys want girls to make the first move?

As a shy guy, I always love women showing me that I'm worth coming up to. After that I can usually take over and be the confident one. It also has to do with the fact I've been burned and played with in very cruel ways, and that tends to stay with a person. Making the first move could also just be a smile and a wave, it doesn't have to be spoken or an approach.

If I don't happen to be interested in her, yes it's a sad predicament, but the same thing happens to guys who make the first move. Over all, I say the best way I could possibly meet someone is through friends. That way we start on equal footing.

Not gonna lie. It is really hard. The thing is that guys are not that smart when it comes to picking up hints that we are interested in them. Here are a few hints that might help you determine weather he likes you. Sometimes when guys are shy they will be normal with their friends and quiet around you because they are nervous. They stare across the room because they just can't help it. Sometimes if they are flirty and back off its because they don't wanna seen to desperate and are scared. They are a little hard to read because they don't want to give their feelings away.

I say go for it. Talk about your favorite movies and stuff. Ask him to check out a movie you guys both want to see. Warped Tour is coming up. Its a great concert. Tell him you both should go.