I met this guy while going out with friends. I was so wasted and while we were dancing I asked if I could kiss him and he said no, I was thrown off by him saying no, but sort of liked it. He asked what kind of perfume I was wearing, but I wouldn't tell him because I am kind of stubborn haha. We exchanged numbers and the next day he text me and told me how good I looked and surprised me with all the physical detailed things he liked about me for example my smile and dimples and my six pack and every other simple thing about me. Every now and then he text me to simply tell me how beautiful I am. He calls me really late at night to tell me how he is thinking of me which I kinda like because it's something that keeps me thinking of him. Then one night I was joking around with him and I told him he is all mine and he freaked and said it's not like that and he does not do relationships, it really hurt me to know that and I can totally understand why. I was so upset that I told him we shouldn't be friends any more and I it was all done out of anger, he has since ignored it and we are still talking. I accept this and am trying my hardest to see him as just a friend, but he is making it hard. He continues to complement me but it is now more intense because he tells me how he wants to take me out and we've been knowing each other for like eight months now and it was in January when he said he didn't do relationships. He for the first time a few days ago called me baby? I am so thrown off by him and on my b-day he text me at like 6 am in the morning and said I just wanted to be the first to tell you happy b-day. He is always asking how I am doing and I travel a lot so he wants to know if I have made it to my destinations safely. This guy can make me feel so shitty one day and the next day he makes me feel like I have found my dream guy, what does this mean? Can someone please tell me what I have to look forward to with this guy? Does he like me and if so, in what way? What should I do when it comes him?
If he doesn't want a relationship and you do, don't follow him. Tell him you're not interested, and you want to find somebody who always wants to hang out with you.
Well clearly you are indeed very confused. i would ask him straight up where this is going. say this " hey, you said awhile back that you don't do relationships, and I have been trying my best to try to think of you as a friend, but with you constantly complimenting me, your making it really hard, so where is this going exactly? "
Thanks so much for the advice I will def figure out where he's leading me I just don't want to be hurt again and it's nice having him there to care since its hard to come across guys like him. - 6 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 6 months ago
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