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What is he trying to say? I'm so confused.

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absolute-diva (Age:25 to 29) When: 6 months ago

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There's this guy I started to hang out with as friends. He had a girlfriend and I am married. I went over a few times to his place and we would just talk. I spent more time speaking with his family then him. The more I went over the longer he would make me stay. I started to notice how he would stare at me and watch me.

We started to get close and really enjoyed each other's company. Then all of a sudden he started to get really shy and nervous around me. If I caught him staring he would blush and look away. He would touch my hand and would sit closer than usual. He never would mention his girlfriend and I only seen her once. His facial expressions would always change when I spoke about my husband.

He asked for my email address which I gave him. He said he wanted to send me something but never sent anything. The next time I went over he made an excuse that my email was wrong and got me to check it out on his computer in his room. Also it is me that always had to call. He only called me once and I missed the call. When I did call back he was really upset about it and never heard from him after that.

I accidentally called his phone a few months after that and he straight away picked up but I hung up because I didn't know what to say. But he kept ringing after that and I never answered.

Can somebody make sense of this guy. Does he like me? Did he want to be more than friends? Is he staying away because I am married? Why would he not talk to me anymore?


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joeschmoe23 (Age:30 to 35) When: 6 months ago

Sheepingly's answer is spot on. He's probably falling for you, but since you are married, he can't do anything about it. I'll bet he's hoping for some kind of miracle, where the two of you end up together. And the fact that you are spending all this time with him, and getting to know his family, doesn't help the situation much. You might think of him as just a good friend, but I can guarantee you that he is hoping for more. I don't know your feelings for him, or for your husband, but the ball is pretty much in your court.

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Thanks for your comment. It has really helped me get this situation into perspective. - 6 months ago

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Yep. I agree he's hoping for some kind of miracle. And you know it's just hurting him. I'm sure he's probably well intentioned and can't help who he falls in love with but you're just making the guy suffer :| - 6 months ago

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wolfcreek (Age:36 to 45) When: 6 months ago

Yes and he want ed a little side action but then his conscience got the better of him . or your husband had a talk with him and told him stay away

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sheepingly (Age:25 to 29) When: 6 months ago

He's probably interested now but of course you're married so he won't say anything but he's hoping something happens between you and your husband so that you become single and he'll dump his girlfriend.

I'd stop being his friend for a while or slowly not be around so much.

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Thanks for your answer. This has really helped. - 6 months ago

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