This is sort of long, but please bear with me because I really need advice! so there is this guy that I like. he's very outgoing and flirty. he's been flirting with me for the past few week, saying hi to me in the halls, smiling, a lot of eye contact, if he's walking by me in the hall with his friends he'll look me up and down and whispered things like "damn" or whatever, he'll hold my hand, put his hand on my knee,texts me and such. I would take all these signals that he likes me. but the problem is that there is another girl, that likes him.she sends him a ton of facebook bumper sticker that say sexual things. how can I know he likes me? and if he is just flirting how can I make him want me! helppp,