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Should I give up on her?

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Toshytosee (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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Well I had finally had the guts to ask my crush out and she is really shy. I know for a fact that she likes me but when I asked her out she didn't respond to my question. We kept talking about other stuff but she won't answer that one question. So she goes up to her friends and leaves me =[. I wanted to leave but my friend told me to go up to her and ask her again and tell her to just say yes or no. So I go to her and she says hi to me then started to look the other way. I walked out and I wondered if it was the right thing to do. Should I ask her out again or should I just give up on her?

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danielkalbowlover
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danielkalbowlover (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Well coming from a girl who has been in this situation I would say give up. My friend asked me out and I didn't answer because if I said yes it would cause uncomfortableness. and if I said no I might lose a friend. So I say give up on her and see her as just a friend and try at another girl.
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asnchic118 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Ask he out a little later. She's probably too shy to answer right now. If your willing to wait it out for a little then ask her the question again. If not move on.
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rockora (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I know for a fact (being an illogical girl) that if you give her space when she didn't ask for it is in her mind like saying "I don't care about you anymore and I have found someone else who I care more about". But the note idea is really good. Its romantic and good for shy girls.
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BoyCrazy-3 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Haha this happened to me before because he was asking me in person and I was to shy to say yes in person so finally he asked me a note and I finally said yes ....and you could also talk to some of her friends and have them ask her for you one of my friends asked me out for a boy before it works!!
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Nickt (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Give her space. She's clearly trying to avoid the question. maybe she doesn't know what to do, maybe she wants to think it over. This is women were talking about. Women aren't always logical in love. Just giver her space.

Also next time you ask her out. DONT USE THE WORDS "OUT" or "DATE". Ask her to coffee. A girl might refuse a date but its very unlikely she would refuse coffee.
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Question Asker That's a problem because I can't drive >.> - 4 months ago
 
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