There's this guy who I haven't known for too long, maybe 6 months, but he's friends with all my friends. And is a really nice Christian background guy. I can't tell whether he's shy, or not, I'm really confused as to what he thinks of me and whether he likes me because his behavior changes all the time.
There are definite reasons why nothing can really happen at the moment, which are that my too good friends both like him (he knows that) and he's kind of friends with my ex. Also we've both only recently gotten out of relationships. The thing is, that it hasn't stopped us before as we made out a while ago at a party, it was completely random, and ever since I've had a thing for him.
i've tried to hide my feelings since I want to get to know him more and I don't want him to know I like him. I'm pretty sure it's obvious though. I see him looking at me sometimes, and I feel he shows off a bit sometimes, and likes it when I laugh at his jokes (even if he wasn't saying them directly too me.) And when he talks to a group he makes eye contact with me a lot. But then sometimes he'll just ignore me, or say something kind of mean, a lot of the time it's when he's been drinking. but sometimes not, I feel like he thinks I'm boring, but then from what others say and his actions that's not the case. it's kind of hard, because we're still getting to know each other. I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm a cool chick, but it aggravates me that I'm quiet because I feel he doesn't like me as much because of it, its pressure because he'll take notice of what I do say, but I always mess it up and can't be myself.
Last night was probably the the thing that made me think. A group of us went out, and sometimes he'd seem like he was hanging around me but then he'd go dance with another girl. And at the end of the night he seemed to be with this girl,(they are friends but it looked like more than that). Obviously this would mean he's not interested at all, wouldn't it.
But it's still confusing when he shows the 'i like you' signs. I don't know so confused! what do you think?
It sounds like he's been looking at you and giving signs that he wants to talk and hang out with you more, but, you might be coming across uninterested in him (not shy, but uninterested). If you aren't taking him up on his stares or invitations to conversations, then he might think you really don't like him, or that you're annoyed by him.
This might explain why he got mad sometimes. He keeps trying but you aren't reciprocating anything. He is probably confused because he thinks you like him but you aren't giving him a chance.
As for the party, he only danced with the girl, right? He might be trying to make you jealous, or he is just . dancing with another person, no big deal. If you want to find out you have to give him more attention. Just go up to him and have pleasant conversations, give him more attention, initiate conversations don't make him. If he's interested he'll give you his attention, if not, he isn't.
You need to approach him, that way, even if you act nervous, he still knows YOU are the one approaching him, and that could mean all the difference.
Thanx for your advice :)......i hope your right, if not I guess at least I'll find out. I think I do come across a little uninterested sometimes....unfortunately it's the guys I really like that I be like this because I get shy! I'm totally different around my good guy friends! I just find it hard to become friends with guys I like. - 4 months ago
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I admire your bravery. You're completely right, you never know until you find out. I hope you can give it your all!!! : ) - 4 months ago
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