So, there's this boy. He's a senior, I'm a sophomore, and its nearing the end of the school year. We played opposites in the school play, and we kissed in rehearsal and on stage for about a week. I recently asked him to come with me to a party, and he said yes, later only to decline because of scheduling clashes. I felt that it was more of a friend doing a friend a favor, but when he told me he wouldn't be able to go he was very sad. And my friend reports that many times when I've walked by him he was either looking at me, or after me. Sooo, because of thinking about him maybe being interested in me, I've been seriously thinking about asking him out. And I guess its developed into something of a crush. I'm just about convinced about asking him out, and have been on the verge of doing so many times. But, as I said, finals are coming up, we both have many important tests to be studying for. Is this the wrong time for a relationship? And then, would he balk at the idea of going out with someone 2 years younger?
Another point; I hardly ever see him in school, and only between classes where we're rushing to go to another class. I only have one period with him where I try to talk to him after, but he's hardly ever alone thereafter. How do I get him alone long enough to ask him? And if I can't, how can I give him my screen name or phone number while being sure he'll txt/im/call me? Or how can I get that information out of him so I can txt/im/call him? Again, we don't see each other or talk outside of school functions because we never see each other.
For starters, have you tried Facebook or Myspace? Those are usually big at most high schools and are a way to help get contact info. if you can't physically ask the person for whatever reason. Also maybe try googling his full name in parentheses. Otherwise you are probably going to have to go out of your way to either ask him in the hallways even though like you said you guys are rushing. If he's alone, maybe call his name and signal for him to come over to you and either straight out ask him for his # or ask him if you could talk to him about something later. He'll most likely say sure, and then ask "Umm, did you want me to call you or.?" And then he'll say sure again and either ask if you have his # or screenname, to which you will respond "I don't think so." and then he'll tell you and your set! If you sound nervous, he'll probably smile and work with you. Otherwise if you really can't see him, does he use his locker often? Do you know any of his friends? What about the school directory/phone book? Yeah they might not be his personal cell phone numbers, but its better than nothing.
If you have an honest crush on him and think that things could work out, stick with it. Good luck!
This is a major turning point =P. I'm also in sort of the same problem.
You need to act quickly, because the school year is just about to end =\.
If you don't ask him, he could find someone else O_O, which you might lose him for a few months/years or maybe forever =(.
But your still trying to find out if now is the right time.
I suggest you do what I decided, and that's to talk to them about it. I'm not gonna lie, its awkward. But it hurts to think that if you had of asked someone out, they would have went out with you rather than the other person that they are going out with 2 months after you had the opportune to ask them out.
For the number part, its not that hard and its a good clue; Just start some small talk, ask, "can I have your number?" and of course he will say "yes".
Once you get his number call him up once, and make sure he knows that you called just to talk to him, not for advice on homework, your calling because you want to talk to him, and that's the truth =D.
So after that, see how the conversation goes. Confront him at school sometime after that, and try a few more "hint" things. Things that will let you know what he's really feeling inside, like saying "you were really good in that play, I could really feel your passion." or something like that XD, if he kind of looks awkward don't take it as a bad sign at first, just tell him "you look awkward" and try and get him to say why.
So yeah, basically just confront him when he's alone, stop him in the halls and tell him how you feel ;D.
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