So I posted yesterday how I'm pretty sure this one guy I work with likes me. I worked with him on Friday and I'm pretty sure he was flirting with me and what not. Well, today I worked with him and his friend. I still talked to the one guy I like, but then his friend started asking me all these questions I would think he (the guy I like) should be asking me. His friend was asking me what my hobbies were, what a vet tech does (since he heard me mention I go to school for vet tech), and what I was doing after work tonight, and I told him I was going home. He was like, then where after you go home? I was like, I'm going home and laughed. But I was still talking to the other guy I like, and we talked about school, and he commented on my car and such. Then I told his friend for hobbies I like going to rock concerts, and he asked me what concerts and I told him pop-punk. I can't tell whether the guy's friend is just being friendly and making conversation since we were kind of dead tonight, or if he's asking me questions for his friend to get to know me without having to ask me, or if the friend actually does like me? Does it sound like I have two guys liking me at once? I am so confused.
well they are exactly that guys maybe they were just messing around and flirting. Which guy do you like? If you like him pursue him and not his friend show him with your body language your not interested in him your interested in his friend when he asks questions give him one word answers not smiles and giggles. Then turn and smile at his friend and talk to him more. I'm not saying be a jerk just let him know hey, I like your friend not you.
I like the guy I worked with on Friday, and not the friend who was asking me the ?'s. Which is why I was sort of caught off guard, but I think the guy may have put his friend up to asking me those questions, so he didn't seem too eager by asking me 10 questions. - 4 months ago
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Well if he did put him up to those questions use code if he asks you questions like oh what are you doing after work ask him who want to know and if his friend that you like looks away or smiles or something look directly at him and answer the question what's wrong with talking to the guy you actually like say why is your friend asking all the questions, the main point is to focus more of your attention towards the one you like get him to talk to you more flirt with him - 4 months ago
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